This anal sex episode is quite in depth so you may want to listen to it more than once, BUT it has everything you need to know. You're going to learn the difference between having deeply satisfying anal sex that gives you full body orgasms. Show Highlights 1.35 Tip 1 - The pros and cons of anal sex. 5.05 Tip 2 - An important question you must ask yourself before trying anal. 6.10 Tip 3 - Why communication is the bedrock of great anal sex. 7.05 Tip 4 - The 4 types of lube you can use and which one is the the best (by far). 9.45 Tip 5 - How to ensure pain-free pleasure. 14.05 Tip 6 - The best position to use for the first time you try anal. 16.50 Tip 7 - Which positions give you the most pleasure. 18.10 Tip 8 - 7 separate advanced anal sex techniques. 21.55 Tip 9 - The key to maximum pleasure during anal. 23.30 Tip 10 - The dangerous mistakes some women make during anal. Make sure to avoid these. 25.35 Tip 11 - Why giving each other feedback makes anal sex better and better each time you have it. Show Notes Learn 13 girl-on-top sex positions here.  Learn 19 more anal sex positions here. How to prepare yourself for anal sex How to have anal sex

#18: 11 Advanced Anal Sex Techniques For More Pleasure

Each week on the Bad Girl's Bible podcast, your host Sean Jameson interviews experts and professionals and everyone in between to teach you the tips and techniques you can use to improve your sex life and relationship or marriage. You'll also learn powerful insights on how to improve your dating and love life.

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So many relationships struggle with sexlessness and many couples aren’t aware of the fact that they can get help and save their relationships! Today on The Bad Girl’s Bible, sex therapist and podcast host, Dr. Nazanin Moali joins us to discuss causes and solutions for sexless relationships. In this episode, you’ll hear all about Dr. Moali’s fascinating background, what made her want to be a sex therapist, her podcast, Sexology, her Farsi podcast, and so much more! We discuss what a sexless marriage or relationship is and what may cause it before talking about infidelity, pornography, and trauma and their effects on sexual experiences in relationships. Sometimes, one partner initiates sex more than the other and may feel rejected often and today, Dr. Moali shares some tips to reconnect in this situation. We even talk about the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire, the main psychological causes of erectile dysfunction, and some cures for chronic erectile dysfunction. To hear all this and so much more, tune in now! Key Points From This Episode: •     Welcoming today’s guest, Dr. Nazanin Moali to the show. •     Dr. Moali tells us about her background and why she became a sex therapist. •     Her Farsi show and the demand for it among the Iranian population. •     The definition of a sexless relationship and the main causes of it. •     Infidelity causing anger and sexlessness and how to validate your partner to heal from it. •     How pornography affects relationships and how to handle the effects of it. •     Unresolved trauma and its contribution to a sexless relationship. •     How to handle when one partner rejects the other for sex or initiation is one-sided. •     Dr. Moali explains what spontaneous and responsive desire is. •     The main psychological causes of erectile dysfunction in otherwise healthy men. •     Some cures for chronic erectile dysfunction. Quotes: “Many people don't know there are solutions out there. Sexual health challenges are something that you can cure, you can get treatment for it. It could be even as easy as a few sessions.”[0:07:31]  “Trauma can be an incredibly painful experience for people to have. It can really impact how our body responds to sex and sexuality. It can impact our responsiveness or lack of responsiveness.” [0:17:31] “If you're not into foreplay, you're not doing it correctly.” — [0:29:24] Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:  Dr. Nazanin Moali on LinkedIn —  https://www.linkedin.com/in/nazanin-moali-ph-d-9623482a/ Dr. Nazanin Moali on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast/ Dr. Nazanin Moali Linktree — https://linktr.ee/oasis2care Dr. Nazanin Moali on X — https://twitter.com/oasis2care Sexology Podcast — https://sexologypodcast.com/ Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

#52 Sexless Marriages, Solutions & Causes with Dr. Nazanin Moali

Research shows that the majority of women will experience pain during sex at some point in their lives. But just because painful sex is common, it doesn’t mean you have to accept it as normal! To talk about this, we’re joined by Nora Langknecht, a sexuality educator, reproductive health counselor, and Brand and Digital Marketing Manager for the sex toy brand FUN FACTORY. In this episode, Nora tells us about her career journey and role at FUN FACTORY, which she describes as the perfect mix of spreadsheets and dildos! Then, we delve into what could be causing pain during sex, the importance of arousal and lubrication, and tips to help you rethink sensuality, communicate better with your sexual partner, and much more. Whether you're flying solo or coupled up, this episode will help you to unlock pain-free pleasure in the bedroom. So, grab your headphones and get ready to revolutionize your sex life! Key Points From This Episode:  What led Nora to become a sex educator and counselor. Common causes of pain during penetrative vaginal sex and their solutions. Reasons that lube is for everyone! When Nora recommends speaking to your doctor about painful sex. Why anal sex can be painful and ways to make it more pleasurable. How to prepare for anal sex; hygiene, communication tips, and more. A warning against numbing cream and why orgasm isn’t always the “goal.” Tips to help you rethink sensuality and experience pleasure without sex. Advice for supporting your libido, whether you’re partnered or single. The role of pornography in a partnership (and when it can be a problem). Insight into how COVID-19 affected couples’ sex lives. Suggestions for self-discovery using sex toys. A comprehensive guide to consent and how to practice it intentionally. Spontaneous versus responsive desire and why mindfulness is key.  Quotes: “Slowing down, focusing on arousal, and including more lube are the main solutions for vaginal pain during sex.” — Nora Langknecht [0:04:15] “Thinking of sex as something more intricate, cyclical, and playful also helps if you're not moving unidirectionally – from [external play] to penetration to orgasm.” — Nora Langknecht [0:12:58] “There are all these different ways to be sensual together that can involve any of our five senses that aren't necessarily focused on what we would consider a sex act.” — Nora Langknecht [0:19:14] “Sometimes in partnerships, we focus on partnered pleasure more than solo play, but solo play is a fantastic way to support your own libido – It's an important part of your own sexual life, whether you're married, dating, or single.” — Nora Langknecht [0:23:37] “For some reason, we started telling this story that [asking for consent] was going to be scary or unsexy, but asking someone if you can kiss them is the sexiest, un-scariest thing you can do.” — Nora Langknecht [0:32:39] Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: FUN FACTORY — funfactory.com FUN FACTORY on Instagram — @funfactoryusa Ohnut —  thepelvicpeople.com/collections/all-products/products/ohnut-depth-limiting-rings Jade T. Perry — jadetperry.com The Pleasure Chest — thepleasurechest.com Lovers — loversstores.com Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — badgirlsbible.com/newsletter More tips for overcoming painful sex. Other Episodes You Might Enjoy: #31 How To Fix A Sexless Marriage & Reignite Fiery Passion with Laurie Watson  https://badgirlsbible.com/31-how-to-fix-a-sexless-marriage-reignite-fiery-passion-with-laurie-watson #34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.  https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d #29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius  https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

#51 Painful Sex Solutions With Nora Langknecht

Cuckolding is a controversial sexual practice that is totally misunderstood but it can actually be a really great addition to the right kind of relationship!  Today on the podcast we are joined by cuckolding expert, Venus Cuckoldress to debunk cuckolding myths, hear about the realities of it, and get some tips for incorporating it into our own relationships. In this episode, you will hear all about how Venus was introduced to cuckolding, starting her cuckolding blog and podcast, the reality of cuckolding in a healthy relationship, how cucking can bring you closer to your partner, why it is a male-driven fantasy, and so much more! Venus then shares some advice and steps for anyone wanting to try cuckolding before explaining the challenges of finding a bull (third partner) and safety recommendations. We even discuss cuckqueaning, hotwifing, fantasies that don’t involve sexual intercourse, whether or not size matters, sexual denial, and the ‘vanilla’ sex life of a cuckolding couple. Finally, Venus tells us why cuckolding is a bad idea if you think it will "fix" your relationship. This episode is filled with some amazing insights into the wonders of cuckolding so be sure to tune in now!   Key Points From This Episode:   •     How Venus discovered cuckolding. •     Why she started a blog and podcast about cuckolding. •     What cuckolding is in reality for people in healthy relationships. •     Her first experience of ‘cucking’ her partner and how it deepened their connection. •     Why cuckolding is not cheating and why men may enjoy being cuckolded by their partner. •     What compersion is and how it ties into cuckolding. •     Venus shares advice for any couples wanting to try cuckolding and the steps to starting. •     The challenges of finding a third partner (a bull) for a cuckolding relationship. •    Venus gives us some safety recommendations when trying out cuckolding. •     Why creating too many rules that become hard to follow is problematic. •     Cuckolding versus cuckqueaning and what hotwifing is. •     How to fulfill your partner’s cuckolding fantasies without actually sleeping with another man. •     The impact of making a comment about size during a cuckolding experience. •     Venus tells us what her size preference is when it comes to sex. •     Sexual denial in cuckolding and how most cuckold couples have a robust sex life together. •     Why cuckolding is a recipe for disaster in a relationship already littered with problems.   Quotes:   “[Cuckolding] is not so much about just your partner watching you or listening [to] you sleeping with somebody else because that's what everybody thinks it is. It's actually really a kind of special loving relationship.” [0:05:20]   “[Cuckolding] is like art, you can sculpt it exactly the way that you want, and it does not need to look like somebody else's piece of art.” [0:11:54]   “The fun part about being the woman in a cuckolding situation is that you really do feel like you have the power and the ability to have this effect on someone that is profound.” [0:20:25]   Longer Quotes:   “If there are any new couples listening out there thinking of making this list of rules, it's okay to have them. But just keep in mind that it may not be realistic to have all of those rules. I think what's most important is that she's safe, and she's comfortable, and that she's enjoying herself. What that looks like should really be up to her.” [0:20:04]   Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:   Venus — https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/ Venus Linktree — https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast — https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/the-podcast Venus Connections — https://www.venusconnections.com/ Venus on X — https://twitter.com/CuckoldressV Venus on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/venuscuckoldresspodcast Dr. Justin Lehmiller — https://www.sexandpsychology.com/about-dr/ Tell Me What You Want — https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want/dp/0738234958/ref ‘Does Size Matter?’ Bad Girls Bible Survey — https://badgirlsbible.com/does-size-matter Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter   Other Episodes You Might Enjoy: #31 How To Fix A Sexless Marriage & Reignite Fiery Passion with Laurie Watson  https://badgirlsbible.com/31-how-to-fix-a-sexless-marriage-reignite-fiery-passion-with-laurie-watson #34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.  https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d #29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius  https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

#50 Cuckolding 101: How To Explore It & Why It Can Be Good For Your Relationship With Venus Cuckoldress

Casey Donatello is a married, non-monogamous author and podcast host who embraces the Hotwife lifestyle. She is passionate about supporting others on their journey to becoming more confident and unapologetic in their lives and their sexual choices. In today’s episode, she shares her process of recognizing and pursuing a relationship dynamic and sexual lifestyle that she finds most fulfilling. We also discuss how she found a partner who aligned with her vision for life and sex and how they deal with jealousy, communication, and rule-setting as they cultivate partner-sharing experiences. Casey also offers practical wisdom on entering the Hotwife lifestyle, pleasing your partner orally, and embracing all aspects of yourself through nudism, content creation, and fulfilling sexual encounters. Tune in to hear all this and more from today’s candid and sexually empowered guest!   Key Points From This Episode: •     An overview of Casey Donatello and her introduction to the Hotwife lifestyle. •     Her relationship journey leading up to her current marriage. •     Jealousy in the Hotwife lifestyle and how her dates are structured. •     Rule-setting and the feedback process. •     Tips for those looking to pursue a Hotwife lifestyle. •     Why it’s essential to share your sexual aspirations with a potential partner. •     Casey’s opinion on how to give your partner a good blow job! •     Advice for finding the confidence to talk dirty. •     Our guest weighs in on whether or not size matters. •     Advice for building confidence while riding your man. •     Why Casey doesn’t edit any of her content. •     How public nudism has supported Casey to find body confidence. •     Tips for women who are hoping to squirt. •     Casey’s complex journey into the lifestyle. •     The story behind Casey’s four books.   Quotes: “[Hotwifing] is completely different than a regular threesome. Sometimes, it’s hard for people to understand how three people isn’t always the same equation. But it really isn’t.” [0:05:50]   “It’s like putting your relationship in a pressure cooker when you invite other people into your bed.” [0:08:26]   “There’s no right or wrong to what you are interested in. It’s just that you and your partner [have to] agree on it.” [0:19:06]   “A lot of times, people don’t want to talk about sex when they’re having sex, but that’s the best time.” [0:30:53]   “If you absolutely hate something or it hurts you, speak up! Don’t let somebody hurt your body because you don’t want to hurt their feelings.” [0:31:22]   Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: Casey Donatello — https://caseydonatello.com/  Casey Donatello on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/caseydonatello.official/ Casey Donatello on X — https://twitter.com/hotwifelife869/  In Bed Podcast — https://caseydonatello.com/in-bed-podcast/ In Bed with Strangers —  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CQT1R15/ Scarlet Surrenders — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PYX8DQB/ Scarlet Swings Higher —   https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RZVKQ3M/ Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter   Other Episodes You Might Enjoy: #31 How To Fix A Sexless Marriage & Reignite Fiery Passion with Laurie Watson  https://badgirlsbible.com/31-how-to-fix-a-sexless-marriage-reignite-fiery-passion-with-laurie-watson #34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.  https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d #29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius  https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

#49 Deep Throating Tips, Becoming A Hotwife & Being Confident Riding Your Man With Casey Donatello

What if your past didn’t have to dictate your future? Esin Pinarli is a human behavior specialist offering psychotherapy to couples, using the Imago and Gottman methods in conjunction with emotional-focused therapy. She joins us to share her perspective on the deep-rooted beliefs behind our actions and reactions within the context of relationships. We touch on how trauma affects us all, and common actions that trigger a trauma response within relationships. Tune in to hear how the support of a therapist can help everyone to unpack the experiences behind their trauma, how the four attachment styles impact our relationships, and how the pandemic has changed the way in which we relate to one another. Esin also explains the role of our nervous system in creating connection and attachment, common reasons why couples become dissatisfied with their sex lives, and much more. Key Points From This Episode: •     An introduction to Esin Pinarli’s counseling practice. •     Unpacking the buzzword, ‘trauma’, and how it affects all of us. •     Common actions that trigger a trauma response. •     The role of negativity bias. •     Advice for those seeking to address their trauma. •     How a therapist can support people as they unpack the experiences behind their trauma. •     The four attachment styles and how they impact our relationships. •     What the collective trauma of the pandemic has done to the state of attachment. •     Differentiating between introversion and the avoidant personality type. •     How codependency fits into attachment styles. •     Your nervous system’s role in creating connection and attachment. •     Why couples become dissatisfied with their sex lives. •     What effective communication might look like. •     Cultivating ‘the space between’ where intimacy exists within relationships. •     Simple solutions for the process addiction that comes from porn usage. Quotes: “People always think they have to qualify for trauma. Everybody has had a certain level of embedded trauma.” — Esin Pinarli [0:02:41]   “We should always be doing the work. There are just so many things in our subconscious that we are not aware of.” — Esin Pinarli [0:10:33]   “A therapist is somebody who will help you to make sense of what’s inside of you, and to untangle and unprocess that trauma so that it doesn’t dictate your future.” — Esin Pinarli [0:11:37]   “If you don’t have enough rupture and repair, you always end up feeling disconnected from your partner.” — Esin Pinarli [0:42:15]   “Not only do we have a dance with our romantic partners, a cadence and a rhythm, but there’s a space between us that is where the intimacy is.” — Esin Pinarli [0:43:13] Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: Esin Pinarli on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/esinpinarli_lcsw/ Esin Pinarli on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/esin-pinarli-73ab1722/ Eternal Wellness Counseling — https://www.eternalwellnesscounseling.com/ Codependent No More —  https://www.amazon.com/Melody-Beattie-Codependent-Controlling-Yourself/dp/B004R125R4/ Bad Girls Bible Sex Tips Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter Other Episodes You Might Enjoy: #31 How To Fix A Sexless Marriage & Reignite Fiery Passion with Laurie Watson  https://badgirlsbible.com/31-how-to-fix-a-sexless-marriage-reignite-fiery-passion-with-laurie-watson #34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.  https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d #29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius  https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

#18: 11 Advanced Anal Sex Techniques For More Pleasure

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