AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

By Danny Vega

What's AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast) about?

Danny Vega, TikTok cringelord, Shannon Dee, actor/director/writer/slash enthusiast, and Jake Davis, man about town & weed dealer with health insurance, read listener submissions & pilfer from the AITA subreddit. They discuss modern questions of morality, relationships, and juice (gossip). Why? To answer one simple question: am I the a**hole? Submit at https://aitapod.com

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AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast) episodes:

05.13.2024
587 AITA for not wanting to tell my ex gf I’m dating her brother? (Listener Submissions)
Happy Mother’s Day to all who celebrate! Danny & Shanny break down some listener submissions for you all. You can submit your stories on our subreddit for a chance to be featured! https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/(0:00) Intro(00:49) Guess the Verdict(15:02) AITA for liking...
05.06.2024
585 AITA for telling my boyfriend to stop eating so much?
Our sponsor today is betterhelp. Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/aitapod Happy mon mon hon hons!!!(0:00) Intro(0:13) AITA for telling my boyfriend to stop eating so much? (25:56) AITA for pronouncing names differently?(38:25) AITA for refusing to give my neighbor’s...
04.29.2024
583 AITA for charging a monthly cleaning fee to my husband? (Spring Cleaning Theme)
Go to www.brandefyskin.com/AITA and use code AITA for 25% off your orderDanny & Shanny get into everyone’s favorite time of year, Spring Cleaning! (0:00) Intro(0:47) AITA for charging a monthly cleaning fee to my husband?(19:58) AITA for not cleaning before a...
04.22.2024
581 AITA for not talking to my dad about the flat earth? (Earth Day Theme)
Our sponsor today is betterhelp. Save 10% off first month at betterhelp.com/aitapodHappy Earth Day to all of you beautiful Earthlings! We hope you do something to honor thy mother today. Hug a tree! Swim in the ocean! Lay in mud!(0:00)...
04.17.2024
579xt (CALL-IN SHOW) AITA for putting my feet on the car seat?
Call-in episode that was partly recorded as far back as June of 2023. Please go shame, Danny!! SHAME, SHAME.Alyssa, Chainey, and Dawson join Danny to cover some sitch-er-roos!(0:00) Banter(4:54) AITA for putting my feet on the car seat and suggesting...
04.15.2024
578 AITA for boarding the plane and leaving without my wife?
Our sponsor this week is betterhelp. Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% offRemote recording this week with Danny & Shanny! (0:00) - Banter(17:57) AITA for being mad my wife rejected me for a dance, then danced with someone else? (41:30) AITA for boarding the plane...
04.12.2024
577b AITA for judging someone whose “sobriety” still involves drinking?
We’re giving you guys a little taste of our bonus episodes! Join us on Patreon if you want more where that came from-- patreon.com/aitapod(0:00) Intro ad(1:16) AITA for judging someone whose “sobriety” still involves drinking?(20:52) AITA for refusing to buy...
04.08.2024
577 AITA for questioning my boyfriend’s sobriety? (ft. No Filter with Zack Peter)
Today Shannon is joined by pop-culture & reality TV news podcast, No Filter with Zack Peter! We get into Zack’s journey with his brother’s autism and how it started his career in activism, whether or not we’d let our fictional...
04.03.2024
575xt AITA for not allowing my teenage son to have a smartphone? (ft. Andy Vega)
Andy, my brother, visited LA. Had to do an ep. Next time him and Shanno have to meet, huh?? Thanks for listening and i hope you enjoy this zany ep-a-roo. (0:00) - Start(01:08) - AITA for not allowing my teenage son...
04.01.2024
574 AITA for telling my friend she’s too basic to be a model? (ft. Kenzie Harr)
Happy mon mon, hon hons! Today we are joined by actor & model, Kenzie Harr! They discuss the dark side of modeling/acting, her experience having an adopted sibling, and Danny being disappointed he didn’t look better in drag. Enjoy!(Sorry for...
03.27.2024
572xt CALL-IN SHOW: AITA for stealing my sister's thunder at her engagement party?
Call-in ep with ancient recordings. I deserve to be karen-ed at for this crime... they were recorded in the summer of 2023 OMG!!!I'm joined by Amy, Katie S, and Regina to cover some sitches!(0:00) - Banter(3:09) - AITA for stealing...
03.25.2024
571 AITA for telling my husband someone doesn’t always have to say sorry?
Happy Monday!! Thanks for listening!(13:32) - AITA for not allowing our daughter’s boyfriend to stay with her on the trip we’re paying for?(35:42) - AITA for not indulging my manager?(52:13) - AITA for telling my husband someone doesn’t always have...
03.18.2024
569 AITA for ignoring a man during a speed dating break? (ft Evyenía from Chemeya Dating)
Today we have a very special guest on the pod-- dating expert, Evyenía from Chemeya Dating! Her company hosts curated dating events throughout California and pop-up events across the country. Danny went on one of their speed dating events and we get...
03.11.2024
567 AITA for not saying “hi” back?
via Shanno: Helllo to all of our wonderful listeners especially the LADIESSSS!!! We hope you all had a wonderful International Women’s Day and got to honor all of the lovely ladies in your life. Today we’ve got an episode chock...
03.04.2024
565 AITA for removing an alpaca's spit mask while sheering against my uncle's wishes? (ft. OK OP)
Our sponsor today is Betterhelp. Betterhelp.com/aitapodWe've got some very special guests today, fellow Reddit podcast, OK OP Show with Sam & John! We had so much fun recording with them at their studio. Their energy is through the roof!! As...
02.26.2024
563 AITA for telling brother's GF she's making everyone uncomfortable with her reactions? (ft. Yo)
Happy mon mon hon hons. We are joined by Shannon's boyfriend's brother, Yo!!! (he is so much more than this but that's just the easiest way to put it. He is also a tapdancer and retired pro thirst trapper)(22:37) -...
02.19.2024
561 AITA for leaving oil on the counter?
This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off!Happy holiday weekend all y'all!!!(20:40) - AITA for asking to change cleaning habits in my apartment?(35:09) - AITA for leaving oil on the counter?(49:27) - AITA for not agreeing to share...
02.12.2024
559 AITA for being mad my boyfriend won't make noodles how I like? (ft. Shannon's Parents)
Shannon is joined today by her creators! Get a little insight into how this airplane feetin', roommate food eatin' creature was made! Hope you enjoy!(2:22) AITA for disappearing for 20 mins on a first date? (Shannon's parents' first date story)(13:28)...
02.05.2024
557 - AITA for telling my sister she's no longer the it girl?
Our sponsor this week is betterhelp! Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off(16:03) - AITA for throwing dead animals into my neighbor's yard?(27:43) - AITA for choosing my wife instead of my neice?(48:45) - AITA for telling my sister she's no longer the...
01.29.2024
555 AITA for not wanting my GF to plan a wedding w her ex? (ft Horace Gold)
We're joined by Horace Gold for this super fun wedding ep! Thanks for listenin'!(17:16) - AITA for not inviting fiance's mom to the wedding bc she said I cheaped out?(28:35) - AITA for not wanting my GF to plan a...
01.22.2024
553 AITA for charging a couple after using our cafe to wed w/o asking?
(0:00) - Banter (12:51) - AITA for invoicing after a couple used our cafe for their wedding?(24:54) - AITA for not letting our husband put a Peloton in our sun room?(39:53) - AITA for hitting on my classmate's mom?(43:08) -...
01.15.2024
551 AITA for telling my buddy his comedy is bad? (ft. Andy Vega, my brother)
DANNY DOING STAND UP - South Tahoe, CA - this Saturday, January 20 · 7:30 - 9:30pm PST, https://www.eventbrite.com/e/real-men-are-58-a-stand-up-comedy-show-south-lake-tahoe-ca-registration-786822847317(0:00) - Banter with Andy, my brother, who visited LA(30:44) - AITA for not inviting my friend's husband to dinner bc he...
01.08.2024
549 AITA for cancelling a trip with my bf last minute and dumping him?
Our sponsor this week is BetterHelp. Save 10% at betterhelp.com/aitapodDANNY STAND UP SHOWS - DM on insta (@dannyvegagram) or email me ([email protected]) for links/more infoBig Bear, CA - Doors 7:00PM Saturday January 13th - Sessions Hotel and ResortSouth Lake Tahoe,...
01.05.2024
547xt AITA for giving the office bully a taste of his own medicine? (The Office Ep ft. Shannon and Jake)
We got a little different ep for you today! Jannon/Shake break down one of their favorite shows, The Office, which is just chock full of a**holes! They take situations from the show and make them AITAs. This might be an...
01.02.2024
546 AITA for accusing my daughter's boyfriend of stealing the turkey?
TIME STAMPS IN THE DESCRIPTION POD PRESENTS(0:00) - Shannon's hat got roasted and her nana passed away(6:36) - Horse:24 attacked by hot tub glass(15:13) - Shannon saw a titan submersible tiktok(16:57) - Shannon saw a tiktok -- how many owls...
12.25.2023
544 AITA for not going to Xmas if I can't wear my hat?
TIMESTAMPS BELOWBut first... merry xmas and a happy holz to you and yours!Shouts to dear listener, Aya, and Chelsea, listener and Shan-sister, for meeting up with me on my Tokyo trip and giving me amazing tours! Also bonus shout out...
12.18.2023
542 AITA for not giving back my gf's grandma's $50,000?
OUr sponsor today is MANSCAPED. use code AITAPOD at check out for 20% off and free shipping HONEY.Hope you guys have a wondy week!!!(0:00) - Shannon ate reasonably on Thanksy G(2:06) - Casa Grande Tales: Meeting w an old friend(8:53)...
12.11.2023
540 AITA for reporting a neighbor before talking to them?
Our sponsor today is Betterhelp.com/aitapodHappy mon mon hon hons!(0:00) - Banter(7:48) - AITA for crop dusting a new consignment shop?(21:33) - AITA for ghosting someone for eating my soup?(44:04) - AITA for formerly reporting a neighbor before having a conversation?Free...
12.04.2023
538xt AITA for using a dating app to build my self-esteem? (ft. Joanna Hausmann & Sam Gerhardt)
I'm joined by my longtime friends. Joanna and Sam, to discuss diabetes, divorce, and dating. PLEASE see Sam's reddit post at this link (she didn't post it; it's her paper): https://www.reddit.com/r/FoundPaper/comments/15txlr9/found_in_a_target_parking_lot/(0:00) - Banter(6:15) - Sam's EPIC r/foundpaper discovery(20:59) - Joanna...
11.29.2023
536xt AITA for being excited for Black Friday fight videos? (Black Friday theme)
Shannon: We hope you all had a delicious Thanksgiving and bountiful Black Friday! Jannon/Shake take you through Black Friday sitches. Happy listening!(0:00) - Banter(22:19) - AITA for refusing to help my sister get gifts for Black Friday?(33:57) - AITA for...
11.27.2023
535 AITA for taking back a gift and selling it on ebay?
Our sponsor today is betterhelp. https://betterhelp.com/aitapodAlso it's my bday today. I sure would love a nice message on my instagram! @dannyvegagram (0:00) - Shannon's vocal fry(21:12) - AITA for taking back a gift and selling it on ebay?(34:41) - AITA...
11.22.2023
533xt AITA for having my Thanksy G guests pay for their entrees?
via Shannon: Happy Turkey Day hun huns! Jake & Shannon have another Thanksy-G episode for ya. We hope you're having a great week and get to eat lots of yummy food!DeeAntonia’s Deelicious Deelights Web Serieshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6PU02Gl3iRg(0:00) - Banter(12:48) - AITA for...
11.20.2023
532 AITA for sitting on my husband's lap during Thanksy G dinner?
Our sponsor today is Manscaped! 20% off and free shipping. Use checkout code AITAPODOur dear listener, Sam, is selling AITApod sticker design on Tumblers. $30 and could make a great gift! Instagram: @greeneggsandham1983 https://www.instagram.com/greeneggsandham1983/Also just as a sidenote, I am...
11.15.2023
530 AITA for participating in my fam’s gift-giving tradition? (gift theme)
Thanks for listenin'!(0:00) - Banter(17:39) - AITA for downgrading my sister’s gift for ghosting my GF out of her wedding party?(30:18) - AITA for participating in my family’s particular gift giving tradition?(40:34) - AITA for giving away my grandparents’ gift...
11.13.2023
528 AITA for setting my boyfriend up to cheat?
Our sponsor today is betterhelp. https://betterhelp.com/aitapod(0:00) - Announcement re: Jake's resignation(24:10) - AITA for being suspicious of fiance and invading her privacy?(36:49) - AITA for setting my boyfriend up to cheat?(52:22) - AITA for celebrating death?Free stickers at: https://aitapod.comSubmit to...
11.06.2023
527 AITA for making my fam start Thanksy G (Thanksgiving) without my sister?
(0:00) - Banter(19:48) - AITA for not wanting to spend the holidays with my sick mother in law?(34:25) - AITA for making my family start Thanksgiving dinner without my sister?(45:02) - AITA for telling my brother I wouldn’t want...
10.30.2023
525 AITA for ruining Halloween for 1000s of kids and not feeling bad? (Halloween Theme)
Our sponsor today is BetterHelp. Save 10% https://Betterhelp.com/aitapodTIMESTAMPS BELOW STAND UP DATES!-----Danny Stand Up Dates - Use code "AITA" for 15 percent offThursday, November 2 6PM, Modesto, CA (https://bit.ly/3LVRDDv) (ft. Andrew Mercado and Tony Bartalone)Friday, November 3 8PM - San...
10.23.2023
523 AITA for not wanting to go to homecoming with someone I don't like? (homecoming theme)
TIMESTAMPS BELOW STAND UP DATES!-----Danny Stand Up Dates - Use code "AITA" for 15 percent offThursday, November 2 6PM, Modesto, CA (https://bit.ly/3LVRDDv) (ft. Andrew Mercado and Tony Bartalone)Friday, November 3 8PM - San Carlos, CA - https://bit.ly/3tqdUCV (ft. Andrew Mercado...
10.16.2023
521 AITA for putting rules on mental health days? (Mental Health theme)
Our sponsor today is BetterHelp. 10% off with code AITApod, https://betterhelp.com/aitapod----TIMESTAMPS BELOW STAND UP DATES----Danny Stand Up Dates - Use code "AITA" for 15 percent offThursday, November 2 6PM, Modesto, CA (https://bit.ly/3LVRDDv) (ft. Andrew Mercado and Tony Bartalone)Friday, November 3...
10.12.2023
519xt AITA for my dog pooping in front of a cafe? (ft. Vanessa Lopez)
Danny Stand Up Dates Use code "AITA" for 15 percent offTIMESTAMPS BELOWThursday, November 2 6PM, Modesto, CA (https://bit.ly/3LVRDDv) (ft. Andrew Mercado and Tony Bartalone)Friday, November 3 8PM - San Carlos, CA - https://bit.ly/3tqdUCV (ft. Andrew Mercado and Tony Bartalone)Saturday, Nov...
10.09.2023
518 AITA for making my sister wear a bra to my wedding? (ft. Tori Piskin)
Watch Tori's new stand up special!! https://youtu.be/_kuZvs3PZZs?si=BeiB7IdMz2ulP5mQMe and Tori doing a show together! (just us two)Saturday, Nov 4 8PM - Fillmore, CA - https://bit.ly/45rbh0Y (ft. Tori Piskin)Use code: AITA for 15%offepisode description:I'm joined by my friend, hilarious comedian, Tori Piskin....
10.04.2023
516 AITA for being mad my husband let us buy a haunted house? (Spooky Szn)
October means... Spooky Szn is here. Hope you enjoy this very special HAUNTED ep-aroo (I started saying this and Jannon hate it). (00:00) - Banter(10:07) - Our sponsor today is 1800Spiders.com(11:10) - AITA for being mad my husband let us...
10.02.2023
515 AITA for fainting at my aunt’s wedding and “ruining it”?
Our sponsor this week is BetterHelp. https://Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off. (00:00) - Banter(13:07) - Sub-Mini AITA for disliking my mother-in-law?(16:24) - Sub-Micro: AITA for prank calling a prank calling comedian?(18:00) - AITA for fainting at my aunt’s wedding and “ruining...
09.27.2023
513 AITA for my response to a friend's wife ruining fantasy football? (Football Theme)
Happy football season to all who celebrate. Here's a football themed ep-aroo and hey, it might not be the Super Bowl, but we think football fans and non-fans alike will find it fun. (0:00) - Banter(14:23) - AITA for choosing...
09.25.2023
512 AITA for telling my bf’s coworkers my clothes were thrifted? (Fashion Week)
Our theme this week is FASHION WEEK. Thanks for listenin'!You can see the dresses for the last situation HERE: https://imgur.com/a/kYHF3fD(0:00) - Banter(15:15) - AITA For reporting my sister for plagiarizing my fashion designs?(25:06) - AITA For taking away my insecure...
09.20.2023
510 AITA for giving both of my kids (m14, f14) the same school shopping budget?
Back to school theme! Thanks for listenin'!(0:00) - Banter about school memories(23:39) - AITA for not budgeting my kids back-to-school shopping?(34:23) - AITA for telling the school nurse she's not a dentist?(41:13) - AITA for refusing to put my daughter's...
09.18.2023
508 AITA For firing my brother after he proposed at my wedding?
Our sponsor this week is Better Help. https://betterhelp.com/aitapodFor those of you in the LA area, check out the festival Shannon mentions! She'll be there and so will I! See ya there Cali peeps. Abbot Kinney Festival - https://www.abbotkinneyfest.com/(0:00) - Banter...
09.13.2023
506xt AITA for not telling in-laws I was born deaf? (ft. Ashton Weinberger)
Joined by my FOREVER friend, legit close to longest of all time, Ashton and Shannon (who is vocal about hopefully having a short friendship w me) to discuss some juicy sitches. Enjoy!(10:25) - AITA for telling my significant other to...
09.11.2023
505 AITA for going nuclear on a misogynist internet troll? (ft. Joanna Hausmann)
I'm joined by my longtime friend, hilarious comedian and writer, Joanna Hausmann to discuss some sitches and some personal stories of hers, THE CLASSICS. See below timestamps for my favorite Joanna videos.(16:59) AITA for going nuclear on a misogynist internet...
09.06.2023
498 AITA for asking wedding guests to volunteer 2 hours instead of gifts?
This is a banger WEDDING EPISODE that Queen Shannon put together :). Hope you enjoy! Sorry about the numbering, but it was numbered for the patrons... which reminds me JOIN US on Patreon, patreon.com/aitapod(3:56) - WIBITA if I put that...

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AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast) episodes:

587 AITA for not wanting to tell my ex gf I’m dating her brother? (Listener Submissions)

585 AITA for telling my boyfriend to stop eating so much?

583 AITA for charging a monthly cleaning fee to my husband? (Spring Cleaning Theme)

581 AITA for not talking to my dad about the flat earth? (Earth Day Theme)

579xt (CALL-IN SHOW) AITA for putting my feet on the car seat?

578 AITA for boarding the plane and leaving without my wife?

577b AITA for judging someone whose “sobriety” still involves drinking?

577 AITA for questioning my boyfriend’s sobriety? (ft. No Filter with Zack Peter)

575xt AITA for not allowing my teenage son to have a smartphone? (ft. Andy Vega)

574 AITA for telling my friend she’s too basic to be a model? (ft. Kenzie Harr)

572xt CALL-IN SHOW: AITA for stealing my sister's thunder at her engagement party?

571 AITA for telling my husband someone doesn’t always have to say sorry?

569 AITA for ignoring a man during a speed dating break? (ft Evyenía from Chemeya Dating)

567 AITA for not saying “hi” back?

565 AITA for removing an alpaca's spit mask while sheering against my uncle's wishes? (ft. OK OP)

563 AITA for telling brother's GF she's making everyone uncomfortable with her reactions? (ft. Yo)

561 AITA for leaving oil on the counter?

559 AITA for being mad my boyfriend won't make noodles how I like? (ft. Shannon's Parents)

557 - AITA for telling my sister she's no longer the it girl?

555 AITA for not wanting my GF to plan a wedding w her ex? (ft Horace Gold)

553 AITA for charging a couple after using our cafe to wed w/o asking?

551 AITA for telling my buddy his comedy is bad? (ft. Andy Vega, my brother)

549 AITA for cancelling a trip with my bf last minute and dumping him?

547xt AITA for giving the office bully a taste of his own medicine? (The Office Ep ft. Shannon and Jake)

546 AITA for accusing my daughter's boyfriend of stealing the turkey?

544 AITA for not going to Xmas if I can't wear my hat?

542 AITA for not giving back my gf's grandma's $50,000?

540 AITA for reporting a neighbor before talking to them?

538xt AITA for using a dating app to build my self-esteem? (ft. Joanna Hausmann & Sam Gerhardt)

536xt AITA for being excited for Black Friday fight videos? (Black Friday theme)

535 AITA for taking back a gift and selling it on ebay?

533xt AITA for having my Thanksy G guests pay for their entrees?

532 AITA for sitting on my husband's lap during Thanksy G dinner?

530 AITA for participating in my fam’s gift-giving tradition? (gift theme)

528 AITA for setting my boyfriend up to cheat?

527 AITA for making my fam start Thanksy G (Thanksgiving) without my sister?

525 AITA for ruining Halloween for 1000s of kids and not feeling bad? (Halloween Theme)

523 AITA for not wanting to go to homecoming with someone I don't like? (homecoming theme)

521 AITA for putting rules on mental health days? (Mental Health theme)

519xt AITA for my dog pooping in front of a cafe? (ft. Vanessa Lopez)

518 AITA for making my sister wear a bra to my wedding? (ft. Tori Piskin)

516 AITA for being mad my husband let us buy a haunted house? (Spooky Szn)

515 AITA for fainting at my aunt’s wedding and “ruining it”?

513 AITA for my response to a friend's wife ruining fantasy football? (Football Theme)

512 AITA for telling my bf’s coworkers my clothes were thrifted? (Fashion Week)

510 AITA for giving both of my kids (m14, f14) the same school shopping budget?

508 AITA For firing my brother after he proposed at my wedding?

506xt AITA for not telling in-laws I was born deaf? (ft. Ashton Weinberger)

505 AITA for going nuclear on a misogynist internet troll? (ft. Joanna Hausmann)

498 AITA for asking wedding guests to volunteer 2 hours instead of gifts?

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