We’re back with two "perfect" dads on Wire Talk today! Greg and Matt are in the studio to share their perspective on life and parenting through the lens of a BLUE temperament. Blues are thoughtful, precise, perfection-seeking, and extra reflective, so we're confident you’ll take away some great insights into the world of BLUES when you tune in. Mentioned on today’s episode: Not sure your color? Don't forget to take our quiz at BOAW.MOM/QUIZ Be sure to catch up on WT 368: GREEN DADS Want to hear last summer’s temperament interview series with moms? Listen to episodes 330, 331, 332, and 333.

369: An Interview with Two "Perfect" Blue Dads

Wire Talk was created to encourage and equip moms throughout the challenging and life-changing journey of motherhood. Each week on Wire Talk Karen Stubbs offers godly, practical advice on the topics every mother has questions about: mom guilt, our children’s faith, potty-training, divorce, our teenagers dating, and more! Wire Talk is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Whether you’re parenting toddlers or teens - these 5 books will give you the tools you need to create a healthier family. Join us as we dive into Karen's top recommendations for parenting books that offer invaluable insights, practical strategies, and wisdom to navigate the ups and downs of raising children. From building strong connections to setting boundaries with love, this episode is packed with essential reads for every parent's bookshelf. 
 Episode Recap: 4:25 - These 5 books truly helped Karen in her parenting journey 5:25 - Personality Plus for Parents unpacks the four temperaments 7:30 - PPP helps you understand the child’s strengths and weaknesses, especially if they are very different from your own 13:21- A Grown Ups Guide to Kids’ Wiring - great for “translating” our kids behavior and helping us speak to them in ways that are more effective  15:40 - Boundaries book: moms are afraid to set boundaries with our kids, but boundaries bring security 18:17- The Birth Order Book explains how the order of our children and age gaps in our family can help us understand our kids’ behavior and tendencies 22:10 - The Five Love Languages of Children  28:02 - Honorable Mentions: Survival Guide to Motherhood, Parenting By The Book, Raising Worry-free Girls, Raising Emotionally Strong Boys, Wild Things, Shepherding A Child’s Heart, Parenting Your Powerful Child, The New Strong-Willed Child, Moms on Call Parenting Series 
 Questions for Discussion: 
What is the most helpful parenting book you have read to date? Why? Have you read any of Karen’s Top 5 books? Which one? How has it helped you parent more effectively? Which of these books do you think would help equip you for the season of parenting you are in? 
 
 Resources:Personality Plus for Parents: https://amzn.to/3UHqTdyA Grown Ups Guide to Kids’ Wiring: https://amzn.to/3ysKgziBoundaries series of books: https://amzn.to/3ypMYFMhttps://amzn.to/3WFjXA1Even Jesus Set Boundaries blog post: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/blog/2019/3/21/even-jesus-set-boundariesThe Birth Order Book: https://amzn.to/4bypAEl The Five Love Languages of Children: https://amzn.to/4bCFkqe Honorable Mentions: Survival Guide to Motherhood: https://amzn.to/4bysA3zParenting By The Book: https://amzn.to/4bfuR46Raising Worry-free Girls: https://amzn.to/4ag7fLjRaising Emotionally Strong Boys: https://amzn.to/4dF5hH8 Wild Things: https://amzn.to/4dEN2lqShepherding A Child’s Heart: https://amzn.to/3UXO4l4Parenting Your Powerful Child: https://amzn.to/44FtB7MThe New Strong-Willed Child: https://amzn.to/4bgvJWfMoms on Call Parenting Series: https://amzn.to/44ClNnn
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416: 5 Must-Read Parenting Books for Every Mom

In today’s episode, we’re fielding questions about the situations you are facing in your relationship with your own mom. Whether it’s a conflict over parenting style, a strained relationship, or a concern about childcare, Karen has the practical answers you’re looking for so you can honor your mother while still maintaining your boundaries.  
 Episode Recap: 2:31 - Honoring your mom can be difficult when the relationship has not been good  3:57 - This can be a spiritual battle more than anything 4:40 - How can I help my mom out after the death of my father?  8:15 - My mom watches my kids weekly and their misbehavior is causing tension between us 13:00 - I’m afraid my mom will resent us choosing daycare, how would you address it?  16:37- My mom has a new boyfriend and I don’t want to be around his dysfunctional family. What can I do?  
 Questions for Discussion:How would you characterize the relationship you have with your mother? Healthy? Distant? Conflicted? Non-existent? If that is a healthy relationship, what part have you played in keeping it healthy? If your relationship with your mom is difficult, strained, or unhealthy, how does that impact your mental and spiritual health? What is one thing you can do to honor your mother this week, no matter what the current state of that relationship is?
 Resources:Grief podcast with Dr. Judy Wolfe: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wt-159-processing-grief-in-motherhood-with-judy-wolfe/id1101953069?i=1000436874170Want to bring Karen to speak in your community? Reach out: www.birdsonwiremoms.com/invite Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms

415: Honoring Your Own Mother

Fear and anxiety among moms today is rampant. In the emails we receive, the churches we visit, and with the moms Karen speaks to- fear is a big deal. Today Karen teaches us a powerful verse and reminds us to fight fear with the truth of God’s Word. 
 Episode Recap: 5:32 - Generally speaking, moms these days are incredibly fearful 6:23 - If fear does not come from God, where is it coming from? 8:27 - I want to trust my family to watch my kids, but feel like I should be scared of letting others watch them based on what I hear in society 12:12 - Help! I worry about all the “what ifs” in life 16:23 - Every evening my anxiety spikes and fear persists 19:33 - My son struggles with fear and I find it hard to understand or be compassionate 
 Questions for Discussion:Do you struggle with fear in your life? Have you ever contemplated 2 Timothy 1:7 “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”?Do you truly believe that God loves your child and is actively pursuing your child’s heart? How can you fight fear with the Word of God this week? Some ideas: memorize it, write it out and post it around your home, play worship music, etc. How are you praying for your child and your home this week? 
 Resources:2 Timothy 1:7: https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+tim+1%3A7&version;=ESV Sissy Goff’s The Worry-Free Parent: https://amzn.to/3QcTp5eWant to bring Karen to speak in your community? Reach out: www.birdsonwiremoms.com/invite Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms  and Facebook: www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms

414: God Does Not Give Us A Spirit of Fear

May is coming moms - and it’s full of school commitments, parties, end of year events and more. Today we’re talking about what you can do before the chaos begins to prepare yourself and your family for a more peaceful May.  
 Episode Recap: 7:36 - You can’t do everything for everybody 10:58 - Find the beauty in letting your Senior go 12:50 - Stay present and enjoy it! 16:25 - Find time for self-care 18:53 - Involve your husband in the to-do list    
 Questions for Discussion: 
What does your calendar look like as you look ahead to May? What can you do this week to protect your time and account for the busyness ahead?From 0-10, how are you doing with self-care right now? What little things can you incorporate into your day and week that help you feel like you?When was the last time you spent time alone praying and reading your Bible or just connecting with God? Can you make time for that this week? 
 Resources:Karen’s 365 day devotional for moms: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/accessories/products/copy-of-moments-with-god-for-moms-daily-devotional-faux-leatherRelated episode: Preparing Your Senior for College - https://birdsonawiremoms.com/podcast/episode158Want to bring Karen to speak in your community? Reach out: www.birdsonwiremoms.com/invite Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms

413: Help! It’s gonna Be May…

Today Courtney DeFeo, host of the Pardon the Mess podcast and a dear friend of Karen’s joins us to talk about raising her daughters. They talk about the season when Courtney felt God calling her to take a break from the professional world - which turned into a 3 year pause. Courtney shares what God did in her world during those years and the new season she is moving into now. She and Karen also share how motherhood uncovered their deep-seated selfishness and how the Lord has worked in their hearts to enable them to celebrate their husband’s successes. We know Courtney’s story will encourage you today!  
 Episode Recap: 2:40 - How Courtney and Karen know one another 4:25 - Courtney’s family and work history  9:55 - God called Courtney to take a complete break from work 13:53 - Just as He told her when to get out, He told her when to get back in 15:58 - Motherhood taught them how selfish they were 21:20- Being jealous of their husbands’ careers and successes 24:19 - Separating her children’s struggles from her responsibilities 30:45 - Pause and pray when you are tempted to jump in and fix the situation 32:58 - Learning not to overcommit 34:17 - Seeing how God has been faithful and brought women into her children’s lives to encourage their faith 
 Questions for Discussion: 
Have you ever felt God calling you to a season of rest?  Is there any tension in your relationship with work right now? Do you feel like you compete with your husband when it comes to your career or your success in life?Do you struggle with feeling guilty or responsible for the struggles your children are going through?What is something God has taught you through your journey of motherhood?
 Resources:Courtney’s podcast: Pardon the Mess: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pardon-the-mess-with-courtney-defeo/id1424241361Ephesians 3:18: https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%203%3A18&version;=NIVWant Karen to speak to the moms in your community? Reach out: www.birdsonwiremoms.com/invite Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms

369: An Interview with Two "Perfect" Blue Dads

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