We all have unspoken "rules" in our relationships, but which ones are actually more commonplace? We're breaking down our thoughts on these rules, sharing some tips and tricks for dealing with anxiety and helping one mom struggling with her husband and bedtime.

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4: Chicken Titties

You may not know us yet, but we're basically famous...and always in on the joke. This isn't our first rodeo so we've learned a thing or two and one things for certain: Our lives may look different, but we all deal with the same shit. Welcome to our digital diary, where we're taking our notoriety to the mic and no topic is off limits. Each week, we'll laugh over life's bullshit, share our hot takes and make one of you basically famous too! Need advice? Want to get something off your chest? Or maybe you want to find out if you're the asshole in a situation? Call or text the hotline at 919-867-6776 for your moment in the spotlight.  xoxo, Spencer & Wendy

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We're off one week and so much happens in between! We're catching up on the stories that captured our attention the last two weeks, from the latest on Gypsy Rose and Britney, to the "unalived" preacher's wife in Myrtle Beach. This week's spotlight moment is a new mom struggling to feel supported by her hubby AND we finally settled on what to call our new segment! (P.S. The name drop's on Patreon...IYKYK)

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52: Itchin & Bitchin

This week, Wendy gatekeeps the secret to makeup for aging skin, Spencer brings shame upon this podcast with her embarrassing disregard for historical knowledge and then makes up for it with her TSwift knowledge. This week's spotlight moment is a listener making sneaky smoothies and our petty rants are quite...varied. Don't skip out early on the end of this one!

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51: Founding Fathers

New segment coming in HOT, but we need suggestions on the name. A gab sesh about internet and pop culture happenings this week including Morgan Wallen's chair-gate, Cowboy Carter and TradeMeProject bringing in receiptsss to quiet the drama. This week's spotlight moment is from someone whose husband may be a bit too reminiscent of his past. Weigh in with your thoughts on socials and tag us!

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50: Candy ≠ Salad

And that's a wrap on March MaNness 2024. The best year yet, in our humble opinion! We're recapping MM and all that came with it, meeting a new friend of the show and yucking on some people's yums (lolz)

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49: March MaNness 2024

We are joined by the infamous Squattin' Watton, here in the flesh, bestowing upon everyone her sage wisdom. Her one request was several AITA submissions and what Elaine wants, Elaine gets! 

4: Chicken Titties

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