073: College Girls, Spring Break, and When Clout Works Against You with SimpleSexyStupid

Today’s guest goes by a few aliases, and you probably know all of them unless you are hiding under a rock. We welcome YouTuber SimpleSexyStupid — or Aryia as his friends call him. He and Connor talk about how to skip the line and get into LA clubs, why college girls are more fun, his Instagame program, and why almost half of his videos are demonetized.   Key Takeaways: [1:20] Aryia shares some tips to get into any club in LA without having to be “on the list.” Embrace being extra, try to look like someone that matters, walk straight past to the line to the bouncer and say it’s just you. If you can roll solo or just with some girls, it’s way better than just a pack of dudes. If it can work for our friend Ben, it can work for you. [8:37] Aryia made it his mission to get to know the club promoters, and his hard work paid off. [11:17] No, it’s not gross to hang out with 24-year-olds. It’s in our biological wiring to like the vibe of college girls. [14:19] USC is a hot school for sure, and Aryia said that the parties are lit. Santa Barbara is also another great party town. [19:25] Connor loved doing spring breaks in South Padre Island and Miami, and can’t wait to try Cancun. Pro tip: party and meet girls during the day when the sun is out instead of just sleeping in. [23:32] 30-50% of Aryia’s videos end up demonetized. It’s hard to know exactly what causes it because both types have girls in bikinis, making out, and drinking, but basically, it comes down to the discretion of YouTube. The tip is to use chill words and a chill title, and then when it gets approved… change it to be crazy. [31:55] If YouTube doesn’t pan out, there is still hope for our porn career. [34:41] Aryia loves a good collab, and he’s been down with writing and producing with others. Connor also has been in the mix with creating a new music video, so expect that in the next coming months. [40:28] It’s turning more into quality over consistency lately on YouTube. The videos that go viral is how you grow, so it’s important to make them good rather than focus on getting as many as you can out. [42:43] Instagram is everything now when it comes to dating, even more than most apps or getting the number to text. It’s a way for girls to see what you are all about, trust you, and get to know you through posting stories that evoke responses and responding to hers. [46:27] When you set up your Instagram to show you are high-value, you basically don’t need to do any work and the girls will come to you. However, the trust may go down initially but it’s not anything that can’t be built over time. He developed the Instagame program to help others get girls to notice them, respond to them and even go after them on the app.   Mentioned in This Episode: Connor Murphy Talks YouTube page: @ConnorMurphyTalks Brandon’s YouTube page: @HighLifeWorkOut @KingKeto — Brandon Carter on Instagram @ConnorMurphyOfficial @SimpleSexyStupid Would You Hook Up with a Guy with a Mustache? Australian Girls On American Guys Would You Hook Up With a Married Guy Show Me Your Favorite Position Drunk Girls on Texting Partying at UC Santa Barbara Instagame @badboywolfy Aryia on Spotify