Who is your hero? When you look at them do you feel like you cannot measure up? It’s not bad to have heroes you look up to! But when it comes to comparing yourself to them, are you careful? Comparison will rob you of your joy in life and will leave you wanting more. 

The comparison trap is a real place. But you don’t have to live there. You CAN get out of it – through learning to trust God with your life, celebrating your life AND the lives of others, and believing that there is a enough for everyone. 

Are you ready to leave the comparison trap behind? Let’s dive in together! 

In this episode, you will hear Candace and Bianca discuss: 
Why comparison steals your joy 
Ways you can get out of the comparison trap 
How comparison can destroy your life 

Connect with Candace and Bianca: 
Candace on Instagram @candacecbure 
Candace on TikTok @candacecameronb
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Bianca on Instagram @biancaolthoff
Bianca’s book Grit Don’t Quit

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Life can be a rollercoaster. We all have good days and bad days, but I believe we are better when we go through it together!  Join me and special guests for real conversations about living with kindness, class and purpose.
Best known as 'D.J Tanner' in the hit television series "Full House" and Netflix's "Fuller House," and as the actor and director who takes over your television around Christmas time, Candace is also a New York Times bestselling author, entrepreneur, and CEO of Candy Rock Entertainment. Candace has been interviewed many times over her decades on television, and hosts her own deep conversations about the many topics people find important.
Each season of The Candace Cameron Bure Podcast will feature one guest for a deep exploration of a single theme, with the hope of encouraging listeners to grow in their experiences of faith, family and purposeful living.

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There is a connection between your emotional health and your body. Just think about what you feel physically when you experience different emotions: 
When you feel joy, where in your body do you feel it? 
When you feel sadness, how do you express it physically? 
When you feel fear or worry, how does your body respond? 
Our bodies feel our emotions, they are connected. And often the feelings we are struggling with are exacerbated by how we are treating (or mistreating) our bodies. 
In this episode, Candace and Jennie are talking about emotions + our body. They discuss how they have seen their physical health positivity impact their emotional health, and vice versa. They also share healthy physical habits that have helped them when they are feeling certain emotions (like sad or stressed). 
What are ways you keep your body healthy so that it can support your emotional health well? Head over to Instagram to tell us! @candacecameronburepodcast 
Connect with Candace and Jennie: 
Candace on Instagram @candacecbure 
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Jennie on Instagram @jennieallen 
Grab Jennie’s book: Untangle Your Emotions

Listener Question: 
Candace + Jennie answer 3 questions from listeners that ask about balance, routines, and habits. From managing time and energy to taking care of yourself without letting it become an idol. Tune in to hear more!

Begin with the Body

What is your favorite memory from your childhood? What makes those memories good memories? 
In this episode, Candace and Jennie are focusing on emotions and parenting. The truth is that we all need to know that we are seen, soothed, and safe in our emotions – especially kids. We aren’t alone in our emotions, and neither are our children. We get to be there for them emotionally, so does Jesus. Feelings don’t heal when we ignore them; they heal when we are wrapped up by the people we love in the middle of them. 
Listen in as Candace and Jennie talk about their personal experiences parenting young children + adult children, being fully present to the emotions of your children (no matter their age), and what they have learned from struggling to “fix” things for their kids. 
Parenting isn’t a one-size fits all – and emotions aren’t the same for every child. How do we foster emotional health in our children? Tune in to hear more! 
In this episode, Jennie talks about the book: Story of God. If you are interested in grabbing a copy for yourself, click HERE. 
Connect with Candace and Jennie: 
Candace on Instagram @candacecbure 
Follow the Podcast on Instagram @candacecameronburepodcast 
Follow the Podcast on TikTok @ccbpodcast
Jennie on Instagram @jennieallen 
Grab Jennie’s book: Untangle Your Emotions
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Connection is the Goal

Two words can push emotions to a deeper place … “I feel.” Do you have community that you can safely share your emotions with? That you can vulnerably say … “I feel” without fear or shame? 
Emotions are best healed in community – to be truly seen, soothed, safe, and not alone in pain heals you in ways you cannot believe unless you feel it. Candace and Jennie sit down to talk about friendship + how God calls us to “bear one another’s burdens.” If you are looking for encouragement around: 
What makes friendships stick long-term
How to show up well for friends when they need you most 
Ways you can “go there” emotionally with community 
Healing friendships that have caused emotional wounds  
Then tune in! Better yet, send this episode to someone in your community to listen together and talk about. We hope this episode inspires vulnerable conversations within your friendship!  
Connect with Candace and Jennie: 
Candace on Instagram @candacecbure 
Follow the Podcast on Instagram @candacecameronburepodcast 
Follow the Podcast on TikTok @ccbpodcast
Jennie on Instagram @jennieallen 
Grab Jennie’s book: Untangle Your Emotions
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Better Together

“Did you ever think your life would be made into a movie?” A question that Helen Smallbone likely never thought she would be asked. But that is exactly what has happened – her family’s story of resilience and adventure has come to life in Unsung Hero. 
Candace sits down for a final conversation with the Smallbones – this time with Helen Smallbone, fearless mum of the family. In this episode, they talk about how her relationship with her husband began, connecting with your spouse once your kids leave the house, finding purpose when you feel like you are just existing, and what it was like to watch her family’s story unfold through film. She oozes grace, wisdom, and experience. You are definitely in for a treat as you listen and watch this one! 
Load up the car + enjoy the movie together as a family as you watch the beautiful story of the Smallbone family come to life on the screen. Head to https://tickets.unsunghero.movie/ to grab your tickets. 
Connect with Candace and Helen: 
Candace on Instagram @candacecbure 
Follow the Podcast on Instagram @candacecameronburepodcast 
Follow the Podcast on TikTok @ccbpodcast
Helen on Instagram @helensmallbone

Helen Smallbone

What are ways your emotional health impacts your marriage? Is one of you more emotionally responsive, and the other naturally stoic? Or do you see emotions showing up in different ways? 
In this week’s episode, Candace and Jennie dive into how your emotional health plays a role in your relationship with your spouse. Listen in as they reflect on their own marriages, talk about practical things they do to stay connected to their husbands emotionally, how they resolve conflict, and the deep value intentional counseling has had on them. 
“What if my spouse doesn’t want to go to marriage counseling or doesn’t want to work on their emotional health?” This is a common question! Candace and Jennie share their insights and personal experiences with counseling + healing their personal emotional health, and how that has led to healing within their marriages. Because the reality is that you have the power and choice to control your emotional health, and you can bring that into your marriage and family relationships. 
Connect with Candace and Jennie: 

Candace on Instagram @candacecbure 
Follow the Podcast on Instagram @candacecameronburepodcast 
Follow the Podcast on TikTok @ccbpodcast
Jennie on Instagram @jennieallen 
Grab Jennie’s book: Untangle Your Emotions
Pick up Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas

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