In this episode John Baku gives advice on:

- John's overview of FetLife (08:40)

- Why John introduced FetLife to the world (10:52)

- How FetLife has evolved and where it is today (19:23)

- The kink community structure, and why people are interested in it (20:35)

- Is FetLife based on personality and interests? (29:54)

- Changing fetishes over time (32:00)

- Discussing different types of fetishes (32:55)

- The journey of sexual exploration and the FetLife lifestyle (37:52)

- Approaching kink style activities and events (43:30)

- FetLife's 2012 "naming abuser" issue and the legal parameters of identifying abuse (46:05)

- What else people should know about FetLife (52:48)

- Typical objections to the kink lifestyle and FetLife (54:10)

- The best place to connect with John and FetLife (57:34)



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111| Fetlife as a Tool to Explore Your Sexuality - John Baku

Dating advice, Sex advice and Relationships Advice or relationship advice for Men. Learn how to talk to women, how to improve confidence, improve relationships and how to have great sex. Interviews include dating experts, dating coaches, pick up artists (PUA), scientists, relationship counsellors and psychologists. All with dating tips, relationship tips and sex tips.

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In this episode Michael J. Domitrz gives advice on:

- What is sexual assault? The difference between consent and arrogance (06:42)

- How to view sexual contact (07:59)

- What is The DATE SAFE Project? (08:56)

- The importance of discussing sexual assault in these current times (14:17)

- Drinking and not being of sound mind: normalizing sexual assault (17:03)

- The cultural "norms" and pressures regarding sexual assault (31:13)

- A worldwide perspective on sex education (35:00)

- Michael's approach to dating, physical intimacy, and sex (36:19)

- Open-minded sexual communities have a higher degree of consent (39:00)

- The psychology of initiating your move to communicate (41:17)

- The advantages of finding out what your partner likes or dislikes intimately: developing sexual confidence (44:16)

- What about the serendipity and the romance? (47:15)

- Our cultural is being taught that romance means control, instead of learning to communicate sexually (47:45)

- Sexual fantasies: communicating and establishing the boundaries of domination (51:21)

- The biggest issues to overcoming the fears of consent (53:19)

- Understanding body language for intent purposes only (54:48)

- Meeting for the first time / dating scenarios: Things to keep in mind (59:05)

- Facing each other's sexual inhibitions through communication (1:04:40)

- How to connect with Michael to learn about more about him and his work (1:07:40)

- Recommendations for quality advice and knowledge in the area of dating, sex, and relationships (1:08:08)

- Recommendations for guys starting from the beginning to improve their dating life (1:09:48)



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127| Can You Date Safe? - Michael J. Domitrz

In this episode Suzanne Venker gives advice on:

- Suzanne's journey and background (05:00)

- What is feminism? (09:13)

- Differences between men and women since the feminist movement (11:51)

- The widespread phenomenon of feminism (16:30)

- The affect on men as a result of the feminism cultural shift (18:00)

- Different types of feminism and labels (21:43)

- What women want from relationships today (25:17)

- If men are happier because feminism has made them less accountable, are they willing to return to traditional ways of marriage? (31:37)

- The affects of the hookup culture, its growth, and its relation to feminism (33:40)

- Other noteworthy impacts on male and female interactions, or relationships (36:44)

- How men can connect with women who are less feminist minded (40:03)

- The demographic trend of U.S. men preferring foreign women because they are less competitive / feminist minded (46:27)

- Healthy communication and leading styles for men to avoid some of the issues caused by feminism (49:30)

- How men can deal with feminist minded women (51:32)

- Therapy as a means of dealing with feminist issues in a relationship (52:27)

- How to connect with Suzanne to learn about more about her and her work (55:14)

- Recommendations for quality advice in relationships between men and women (55:40)

- Top recommendations for guys to improve their dating life (56:25)



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126| Is Feminism a War on Men? - Suzanne Venker

In this episode Jenelle Marie Pierce gives advice on:

- Jenelle's background and The STD Project: from inception to now (04:04)

- How Jenelle contracted her STI as a teen (08:24)

- How Jenelle manages her relationships, sex life, and life in general with an STI (10:28)

- The difference between an STD and an STI (15:26)

- The most common STIs (18:24)

- Pubic lice: shaving and treatment (23:05)

- More common STIs (25:50)

- The scope of risks in transmitting an STI (e.g. blood transmission, skin to skin) (28:28)

- Exposure risks in oral sex and when sexually protected (e.g. using condoms) (33:28)

- Sores, outbreaks, and the rise of syphilis (39:25)

- The rise of STIs and how information is surveyed, gathered, and reported (44:32)

- The inconsistency of getting tested for STIs / STDs (48:20)

- Recommendations for testing and when depending on your sexual lifestyle (52:52)

- Testing as a commitment to your relationship and sexual health (57:57)

- Concerns about kissing and transmitting STIs (59:20)

- Statistics of the number of people with Herpes (1:01:00)

- What to do when discovering you have an STI: the importance of dealing with the social stigma and educating yourself (1:01:50)

- How to have an STI conversation with your partner (1:04:40)

- Common misunderstandings about STIs (1:15:55)

- The social pressure of talking about protective sex and being responsible to talk about it (1:17:35)

- How to connect with Jenelle to learn about more about her and her work (1:19:45)

- Recommendations for quality advice and knowledge in the area of STDs, dating, sex, and relationships (1:20:20)

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- Recommendations for guys to improve their dating life (1:21:23)



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125| Avoiding and Managing Sexually Transmitted Diseases - Jenelle Marie Pierce

In this episode Michaela Chung gives advice on:

- How Michaela became interested in the topics of introversion, dating, and socializing (07:55)

- Michaela's current relationship and social lifestyle (09:22)

- What is extroversion and introversion? (11:00)

- Emotional versus logical conversations (14:45)

- Understanding the Myers Briggs personality test (16:35)

- Using the Myers Briggs test to accurately self-identify? (21:00)

- Evolving from introversion to extroversion (21:40)

- Common misconceptions about introversion: shyness and timidity (24:58)

- Communication differences between introverts and extroverts (25:37)

- The demographics on introverts (27:21)

- Are there social disadvantages to being an introvert? (28:02)

- Aspects of social pressure towards introvert behaviors or lifestyles (29:20)

- Making career choices as an introvert (30:00)

- Energy drain and what it feels like (32:20)

- Whether or not ADD and ADHD have an affect on introversion (34:00)

- Managing your energy levels as an introvert (35:18)

- Implications for dating and relationships as an introverted man: setting boundaries and communication (40:00)

- Can dating apps and online dating sites work for introverts? (45:20)

- The negative aspects of an introvert socializing and meeting people in clubs and bars, and what to do instead (49:00)

- The difficulty of introverts being intimate with others: giving yourself permission to share without invitation (54:27)

- How to connect with Michaela to learn about more about her and her work (57:22)

- Recommendations for quality advice and knowledge in socializing, dating, and relationships (57:5

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124| How to Work With (Not Against) Your Introvert Nature - Michaela Chung

In this episode Cindy Meston gives advice on:

- How Cindy developed an interest in the various topics covering human sexuality (05:10)

- The affects of testosterone on women's sexual physiology and behavior (07:27)

- Behavioral changes based on different levels of hormones in women (e.g. testosterone, oxytocin) (14:00)

- The differences in sexual arousal response between men and women (15:30)

- How nicotine affects sexual arousal and contributes to erectile dysfunction (18:35)

- Understanding erectile dysfunction (21:34)

- Regarding women, how the physiological sexual arousal aspects relate to psychology (e.g. how they think, how they behave, etc.) (23:37)

- Cindy's overview of women's sexual behavior (25:12)

- Questions that could get answered within the next 5-10 years about women's sexuality (27:16)

- The ability of Ginkgo biloba to increase blood flow throughout the body, and the possibility of increasing blood flow to the genitals (30:31)

- The positive affect of exercise on your sex life and the impact on sexual arousal (33:36)

- The background and commonality of sexual abuse, and its relation to women's sexual behavior in adulthood (37:04)

- Healthy and beneficial approaches towards sex and/or relationships men can take with women who have suffered sexual abuse (43:14)

- How to connect with Cindy to learn about more about her and her work (51:33)

- Recommendations for quality advice, research, and knowledge in dating, sex, and relationships (52:17)

- Recommendations for guys to improve their dating life as fast as possible (53:21)



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111| Fetlife as a Tool to Explore Your Sexuality - John Baku

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