Jan made up an enormous lie to explain how her perfect relationship ended. She even told it to her kids, her sister and the man she later met and married.

In pictures: See Jan and Rick together; Jan's salon; and the actual text exchange where he ghosts her. They're waiting on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. Search @secretroompod.

SECRET ROOM | UNLOCKED In Unlocked | 107 Ben and Jan break down the mystery of Rick's disappearance even further. It's a conversation available exclusively at patreon.com/secretroom when you support.

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