99| How and Why to Start Swinging (Male Perspective) - Cooper S. Beckett

In this episode Cooper S. Beckett gives advice on:

- Cooper's background and how he became involved in swinging (05:15)

- Cooper's highlighted swinging experiences (09:41)

- The importance of physical confidence (17:00)

- The negative experiences in swinging: compatibility versus incompatibility (23:25)

- Swinging as a "foreign" lifestyle without positive navigation (28:45)

- The concept of impermanence in relationships and seeing the value of a relationship regardless of its longevity (30:30)

- The biggest differences in Cooper's life since getting into swinging (35:02)

- Is there a transfer of confidence to other areas of life as a result of swinging? (38:57)

- The positive pressure put on oneself to better communicate in the swinging community: the ability to quickly access and the openness to jump in (41:30)

- How Cooper discovered his bisexuality, dealing with it emotionally, and bisexuality in the swinging community (43:00)

- The Kinsey Scale in recognizing there are varying degrees of bisexuality without identifying with being gay, as a result of having a strong sense of self and who you are (50:26)

- Interesting things Cooper has tried while in the swinging community (53:00)

- Practical tips for people wanting to get into the swinging lifestyle and make the most out of the experience (55:40)

- The possibility to learn from good, ethically produced porn that is often less traditional (58:50)

- STI / STD safety (sexually transmitted infections / diseases): handling it in the swingset, and in general (1:07:30)

- The peer pressure of introducing protection in oral and penetration sex (1:15:10)

- Recommends for finding practical, quality sex education advice (1:17:05)

- The best ways to connect with Cooper to learn more about him and his work (1:18:53)

- Top three recommendations for guys starting out in their sexual exploration (1:20:08)

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