This episode is all about how to add more hotness and newness into your relationship. From exploring non-monogamy to kink to role-play, or just adding a little spice to your monogamous lover-ship, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey has something to teach you.

About our guest: Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in London. With more than 30 years helping people create and sustain meaningful and exciting relationships, Dr. Bisbey specializes in GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity), is consensual non-monogamy and kink BDSM knowledgeable and helps traumatized people to move from victim to survivor and back into life.
On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, relationships, and self-expression, Dr Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4) and the host of the popular podcast The A To Z Of Sex®.She’s also a passionate speaker, dynamic workshop/retreat facilitator, and sought after expert in the media on the topics of sex, relationship style, intimacy, and trauma.
Dr. Bisbey is the author of Chopping Wood, Shaping Metal & Other Erotic Stories, Dancing the Edge to Reclaiming Your Reality: Essential Life Skills for Gaslighting (and Trauma) Survivors and Dancing the Edge to Surrender: An Erotic Memoir of Trauma and Survival, and identifies as a queer consensually non-monogamous leather woman, and is in a full-time authority transfer-based relationship with her husband. To learn more, visit DrLoriBethBisbey.com.
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#277 How to Add More Hotness and Desire to Your Relationship - with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey

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How did the fabulous designer Melanie Rose of Netflix's hit show How to Build a Sex Room become known as the “Mary Poppins of sex rooms”? How would someone know what kind of sex room would be the right fit for them, and what they lived in a small two bedroom apartment and have kids? Or a one bedroom or studio…can they make a sex room (or closet/trunk)? What is the purpose of couples making a "mood board" and how does it apply beyond building sex rooms? How can couples uncover their desires and fantasies to add more play and sexiness into the bedroom and beyond? What are some simple DIY ways people can sexify their spaces here and now? And what about sex rooms or toys/products for folks with disabilities? The one, the only, the talented Melanie Ruth Rose shares this and more.
About our guest: Melanie Rose was born and raised in London, England. She spent over a decade as a successful actress in theater and television. Since relocating to Los Angeles she has become a much sought-after interior designer. Alongside traditional design and renovations, she also specializes in creating “sacred spaces:” rooms, suites and areas dedicated to the sensual and erotic. She is the host, designer, and consulting producer of the wildly successful reality show on Netflix “How To Build A Sex Room”. To learn more go to http://melanieruthrose.com
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#383 How to Build a Sex Room - with Melanie Rose

What is happening behind the scenes when sex/intimacy happens in film, television and porn? What us an "intimacy coordinator" and why do they play a pivotal roll in the on-set production? How do intimacy coordinators choreograph a scene, awnd hat makes CINTIMA’s training important and unique? How does watching a show with intimate plots deepen a couple’s relationship, and how does the quality of the content for intimate scenes - as well as what is happening behind the scenes - affect the consumer? And how can someone become an "intimacy coordinator"? Is it just a career move or can it change an individual's everyday life?
About our guests:
Jimanekia (she/her) is a Queer Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast mini-series for survivors of assault and our allies. She is also the Founder of Tending The Garden, a nonprofit for sexual assault survivors that have been marginalized. Her work as a sex educator has been featured in Playboy, Cosmo, Nylon and MANY more. Jimanekia has worked with Intimacy Coordinators in creating content and teaching since 2021, and became one of the co-owners and co-founders of CINTIMA in 2023.
Yehuda Duenyas (he/they) is a transdisciplinary artist creating at the intersections of Intimacy Coordination, Experiential Design, Performance, Film, and Sound. Proudly representing the LGBTQIA+ community, Yehuda brings an authentic and personal voice to their role. As a SAG-AFTRA accredited Intimacy Coordination trainer, Yehuda co-runs CINTIMA.CO, a pioneering training program tailored for marginalized identities entering the field. Notable Film & TV credits include projects such as "MONSTER: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story" (Ryan Murphy/NETFLIX), "Westworld Season 4" (HBO), "The Afterparty Season 2" (SONY/APPLE TV), and "American Gigolo" (Paramount+/Showtime). Intimacy for Performance credits include Faye Driscoll’s Weathering (NY Live Arts; The Blackwood, Toronto), The Beautiful People (Rogue Machine, LA), and Tom Bradshaw’s Fulfillment (The Flea, NYC; ATC, Chicago).
Jaclyn Chantel (she/her) is Co-Founder at CINTIMA: Cinematic Intimacy Artists. She is a true multi-hyphenate and has been working in the entertainment industry for over 10 years. After earning her BFA in Acting from the University of Cincinnati’s College-Conservatory of Music, she has worked in production, directing, casting, and acting. This body of work inspired Jaclyn to begin her work as an Intimacy Coordinator, filling her toolbox with experiences and skills from which to draw as she approaches this important work with actors. Using Alexander Technique, Alba Emoting, Viewpoints, and Labon, Jaclyn is a natural at fostering collaboration and personal agency in her work as an Intimacy Coordinator. 
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#382 Behind the Sex Scenes in Film, Television and Porn - with CINTIMA

What is a “relationship/sex life reboot”? What are some of the main reasons why women and/or couples find themselves in a place that needs a reboot, and is this the same as a "sexless" marriage or relationship? How do hormones tie into all of this? Are there any preventative measures people can take to avoid entering the “I/We need a reboot”? And what about DIY ways people can do on their own when they are in the “help, I need a reboot” space? 
About our guest: Dolly Josette is a somatic sex coach, sexological bodyworker, and founder of Relationship Reboot: a private retreat in Nashville, Tennessee for women and couples.
With a focus on intimacy enhancement and embodiment, Relationship Reboot teaches clients how to have the best, most connected sex of their lives. Through embodiment coaching, somatic exercises, and sexological bodywork, Dolly helps clients heal sexual shame, and listen to their body’s subtle cues for safety, arousal and expansive desire. She has been called “a sexual midwife” and a “consummate professional who holds a safe, non-judgemental container” 
By accessing the deeper psychology of eroticism and attachment, she helps couples and women experience the aha and yes moments that lead to a lifetime of satisfying sex. 
The former President of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers, Dolly’s a recurring guest on Sex With Emily, has been with us before on Shameless Sex, and was named “a leading practitioner in hands-on sexual therapy” by Hustler Magazine. 
From retreats to private coaching to online courses, including her Pleasure Rx and Touch.Feel.Connect video series, Dolly Josette has quickly become a go-to voice in sex therapy and pleasure rehab.
Now based in Nashville, she spends her countrypolitan time with her hubby of 14 years, their two rescue dogs and their three pygmy dwarf goats. Learn more about Dolly at http://pleasureMuse.com.
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#381 How to Pull Your Sex Life (or Relationship) Out of the Gutter - with Dolly Josette

In this episode we chat with dear friend and fellow sex educator Tracy Felder. Tracy has traveled the world and has years of experience mastering the art of "sex on the road". From optimizing your (sexual) health while traveling, sex on airplanes, knowing what should be in your sexy travel kit, safety regulations with sex toys, and staying connected to partners from afar, listen to this episode to get your road time sexy on.
About our guest: On a mission to spread her sex-positive skills at a national level, Tracy’s career path has led her to COTR, Inc., where she serves as Product Education Director. Working alongside company founder and CEO Alicia Sinclair, Tracy is proud to represent the female-led manufacturer of cutting-edge premium pleasure product brands. With her sights set on promoting sexual wellness, self-care, and acceptance of all gender identities and sexualities, Tracy has also became a certified sex educator. Tracy believes that by embracing oneself sexually and sharing that with a partner(s) is the key to happy sex life. Her motto is: "Share, love, give ... and receive unlimited pleasure!”
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#380 Sex on the Road and Oversees - with Tracy Felder

Why is it so important to create a safe erotic space for bi and bi curious women (as compared to other sex parties)? What actually happens at Skirt Club parties? Why do a lot of people feel bisexuality is an “invisible” orientation? Who are all women play parties for? And how can people talk to their partners about wanting to attend Skirt Club (or explore bisexuality in general)? 
About our guest: Genevieve is the founder of Skirt Club, a private members club for bi-curious & bisexual women. With more than 24,000 members globally, women are more interested in each other than ever. Born in England and raised in Hong Kong, Genevieve has lived in many of the world’s major cities. Her career has spanned financial marketing, sales, branding and journalism. Ten years ago she left her corporate days in finance behind, to pursue a vision of advancing women’s sexual confidence. Genevieve was the first to curate luxurious global events where women can put their own desires first, and gain confidence from the bedroom to the boardroom. Today she is building the world’s first dating app for bisexual women. A leading figure in the movement for women’s sexual empowerment, Genevieve has been interviewed for high-profile publications such as Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Cosmo, Bloomberg, Rolling Stone and the Sunday Times. Genevieve resides in Miami.
About Skirt Club:
Away from the prying eyes of men, Skirt Club parties are designed to facilitate a night of consensual experimentation – no consequences, no questions.
All our guests share a girl-on-girl interest and no men are allowed, in fact they are banned entirely. ‘Sexual empowerment is not about turning your boyfriend on with another girl’ she says. ‘It’s about doing what excites you’.
Geneviève is a firm believer in the link between high risk and high intelligence. Smart sex requires honesty; the ability to express sexual preference and manage the tension between control and risk. Trust and respect with your partner is important, discretion is key.
Skirt Club’s mission is to build an exclusive all-female community for empowerment and sexual discovery. A network of career minded women with a common interest. Confident, informed women are more successful and the world only benefits from this. 
Designed by women, for women, Skirt Club promotes glamour; free-flowing champagne, burlesque performers and… much more. Attend one of our parties in London, Berlin, Vienna, Ibiza, NYC, SF, LA, DC, Austin, Miami, Shanghai, Brisbane, Sydney and Melbourne. 
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#277 How to Add More Hotness and Desire to Your Relationship - with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey

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