85| How to Avoid Relationship Drama (in a Polyamorous or Monogamous Relationship) - Cunning Minx

05.18.2015 - By DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast)

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In this episode Cunning Minx gives advice on:

- Minx' background and dating lifestyle (03:50)

- Dealing with relationship drama in polyamory and developing a level of self-awareness (10:08)

- How a man can tell if it's his emotions that are generating a woman's dramatic response versus hers (16:47)

- Minx discusses her user manual called: RTFM (Read The Fucking Manual) and how men can create the same in order to learn more about themselves, and make that more concrete (17:38)

- Introducing your user manual to your partner (21:02)

- Feedback from people that have created their own user manual (24:34)

- The comfort level of being honest and direct when talking to a potential partner during first dates (25:40)

- What should you do when you decide that your partner or the person that you're involved with is causing some kind of drama? (29:24)

- Things to do when you have not taken the steps to diffuse the drama earlier (32:47)

- How men can handle their emotions when having to "own up" to their own actions and the emotional responses they get from their partner (35:50)

- Is there a distinct structure that reflects owning your emotions and not pushing them on someone else? (40:16)

- The possible negative reaction to bringing up owning your negative emotions (41:25)

- How to communicate to your partner when you are troubled about something he/she is doing (46:08)

- Rewarding the right behaviors when communicating (49:57)

- The best ways to connect with Minx and learn about her (see show notes below) (51:50)

- Who besides yourself, and what, would you recommend for quality advice in this area? (52:52)

- Top three recommendations for men starting from scratch to improve their dating life as fast as possible (55:00)

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