146. Is Porn Ruining Your Relationship?: Quit Porn Strategist King David

"King David" is a young man with a big dream: to burn down the $97 billion worldwide porn industry, one man at a time.

King David is the world’s only Quit Porn Strategist. His history with porn dates to his teenage years and before; and though he's out of his teens now, every year more young men are still discovering the world of porn. David wants to help them find the exit. His website is https://enroll.quitpornstrategies.com/.

IN THIS EPISODE:

3:25   David's story

19:30  Porn is a drug

21:00  Porn increases dopamine and is a super-stimulus, which is why it's so appealing

25:25  You don't watch porn because you're horny; you watch it because you're hurting

25:40  There's a difference between wanting to have sex and wanting to watch porn

28:20  Asking yourself why and getting to the root of it is crucial to get rid of any addiction

30:00  You have to actually VOCALIZE to yourself about why you want to watch porn

35:00  Young men growing up w/ porn do not realize that that's not what sex with a woman is truly like

35:40  How porn changes your view of sex and women

38:30  Women feel like they're being objectified when their man uses porn

39:40  How can a husband determine if he’s done w/ porn for good? And how will a woman know when he really is done watching porn?

42:00  Men and women need to understand what each other needs sexually

44:50  If you're married and you have to think about porn when you have sex, you have a problem!

46:10  It is NOT TRUE that porn is good for you and your relationship

47:00  38% of  millennial women (under 40) have experienced choking, gagging, or spitting during consensual intercourse

49:00  With porn you always need more “exciting” and “more extreme”

50:20  There's no communication in porn

51:50  One-third of all porn viewers are women

52:30  Women need to know that men don’t turn to porn because YOU as a woman lack something

56:40  Couples need to communicate about sex

59:00  David's 31-day Quit Porn Mastery Program