543 | Leading Families: Conflict To Community

Use the timestamps below to guide you better as a leader or individual:How do you go from conflict to community? 0:00Welcome to the chrisliccardo show, leading families conflict to community, and the journey from discord to unity within families.Why conflict within families leads to tension and can lead to strained relationships.How to make a shift from conflict and tension to being able to have open dialogues, even if they have healthy conflict in them, to create family bonds.The importance of healthy boundaries.How to remove yourself out of the conflict. 5:09The desire to control and the desire to win, and how to remove yourself from the emotional effects of conflict.The first thing to do is recognize when and why people add to conflict.The importance of recognizing when someone is struggling with a specific topic or the way that something is presented, and how it can be seen as an example of someone who is in task mode.How perspective gathering questioning can sound like accusing someone of doing something wrong.Once someone has changed the way that they are asked a question, it takes away any defensiveness from the person.Recognize when someone is struggling and what caused it. Take responsibility and adjust communication in a way that is loving, kind and in the direction of the other person.Why is community so important as leaders? 13:25The first thing to recognize is why community is so important as a leader. The more people operate in quality community, the more they are healed and feeling healthy.The role of leadership in family situations that are trying to diminish conflict or have the best community.One of the best ways to heal someone who has experienced trauma is in community, communal dancing, singing and enjoying each other.The six areas in the world that have the highest number of centenarians, people who live over 100 years old, have a phenomenal community aspect.How to help create a harmonious environment. 19:18The first thing a family leader has to do is recognize the importance of not being emotionally handcuffed to conflict.One of the most important qualities of a harmonious environment.Get to a place of understanding where people are coming from and what they are experiencing in this moment.Lead the whole family to a greater community.Your job is to create the communal aspects of the family.Communication forms the backbone of any thriving family community, and it's the backbone for a thriving community.Fostering a space where everyone feels heard and valued. 25:44One of the big aspects of communication is fostering a space where everybody feels heard and feels valued.When someone doesn't feel heard, repeat back everything they've heard.Communication forms the backbone of any thriving family community. One of the most important aspects of communication is leaning in other people's direction and helping them understand they are heard.Check out crystalcredo.com/store for more details.The more you can solve these aspects as you do that, the...