87| Navigating the World of BDSM - Lee Harrington

In this episode Lee Harrington gives advice on:

- Lee's is current relationship and where he's at in his own life regarding dating, sex, and relationships (03:35)

- What sparked Lee's interest in BDSM and kink, and his introduction into it (04:23)

- An overview of BDSM and kink, and their variety of preferences (06:59)

- BDSM and kink becoming more mainstream and its relevance to a mainstream audience, as well as the importance of communication and 'consent' (10:10)

- Navigating the boundaries of the "extreme" in BDSM and kink as a way of developing and improving your relationships, even if deciding there are experiences that are not for you (15:22)

- Finding ways to introduce yourself to BDSM and kink: communities, classes, private clubs, parties, etc. (16:38)

- What type of people would be interested in exploring this area? (23:43)

- How to introduce this area of interest to your partner (27:07)

- Building trust and communication in various types of sexual experiences to improve your relationship (30:11)

- Specific things in the Fifty Shades of Grey movie and books that portray the healthy and unhealthy sides of BDSM and kink (36:09)

- Coming to an agreement about what you and your partner are into and fulfilling each other's desires (40:46)

- Matchmaking type of websites for people interested BDSM and kink (41:46)

- The importance of safety when using bondage toys and equipment (47:40)

- The emotional journey during BDSM and kink types of sexual experiences: playing and dealing with your emotions (56:09)

- Navigating through the BDSM community and dealing with different perceptions or approaches: the negative aspects (1:01:05)

- The various styles of rope bondage, where to start, and your approach (1:07:30)

- The best ways for people to contact Lee and learn more about his work (see show notes below) (1:14:51)

- Recommendations for high quality advice in this area (1:14:51)

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