You’ve heard me say it before but it bears repeating, one of the things that I truly enjoy about doing this podcast is all the fascinating people I get to meet and talk to. Nessa and D are another in the long line of captivating people that I’ve encountered. What struck me the most about them is just how well adjusted they are to being in the lifestyle. They’re one of those couples who seem to have everything in its proper perspective. You can hear it in the way they talk. This lifestyle just fits them to a tee and they couldn’t be happier. I guess you can say that they’re “Built For This”. Enjoy.

Episode 121 - Nessa & D, Built For This

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In concluding my series on exploring Black Love in the lifestyle I was saving the best for last. In part four I have a conversation with the ladies, the wives, the Vixens. I so enjoyed talking to these ladies as they shared their most personal thoughts and feelings as it pertains to being a hotwife. It’s always a pleasure to hear how women evolve and grow as they move through this lifestyle and their stories do not disappoint. If you enjoy hearing from women who have embraced their sexual power, then this episode will certainly make you smile.

Episode 148 - Vee and Kee, Celebrating Black Love in the Lifestyle Pt 4 - The Vixens

For part 3 of my series I talked to the husbands and got their perspective on being Stags in this lifestyle. It was cool talking to Chad and Dee and hearing that while sharing some similarities, they are both different in their approach and perspective. I enjoyed hearing their response when posed with the question “how do you handle your wife having real feelings for another man?” Some really interesting insights there. And please make sure you listen for Dee’s views on setting rules vs. building trust. It is certainly not to be missed and will surely make you think. I thoroughly enjoyed talking to these brothers and I’m sure you will enjoy listening to them.

Episode 147- Chad and Dee - Celebrating Black Love in the Stag/Vixen Lifestyle Pt. 3 feat, The Stags

I’m happy to bring you Pt.2 in my ongoing series where I shine the light on couples of color within the lifestyle. This episode introduces you to Chad and Vee, a couple who have been together since college. I have a great time talking to this couple and they are hilarious. This is an episode that will definitely have you laughing. Chad is a husband who is the true epitome of what it means to experience compersion. If you want to hear from a man who truly wants to see his wife living her best life, then you will certainly enjoy their story.

Episode 146 - Chad and Vee - A Celebration of Black Love in the Lifestyle Pt.2

We all know that black men are very well represented in this lifestyle but I’ve always been struck at how underrepresented women and couples of color are. With this in mind I have been wanting to shine more light on these couples. I recently had the pleasure of meeting 2 couples who were kind enough to join me on the podcast. I decided to present these conversations in four parts:
Pt 1 - D and Kee
Pt 2 - Chad and Vee
Pt 3 - The Stags, Chad and D
Pt 4 - The Wives, Kee and Vee
For this episode I’m happy to introduce you all to D and Kee. Theirs is a story of coming to grips with their feelings, being open with one another and truly embracing all that comes with this wonderful lifestyle. I hope you enjoy hearing their story as much as I did talking to them.

His Twitter - https://twitter.com/dasecretlifeof
Her Twitter - https://twitter.com/herstaghisvixen

Episode 144 - D and Kee - A Celebration of Black Love in the Stag/Vixen Lifestyle

I chose Raw and Exposed as the name of this episode because when you listen to it, that is exactly what R and L are…Raw and Exposed. Their emotions, pain and past traumas are on full display in this riveting conversation. I’ve talked to dozens of couples over the years on my podcast and I don’t think I can recall 2 people who were so willing to bear it all quite the way that these 2 did. Theirs is a journey of acceptance, self discovery, healing and an enduring love for one another. When people talk about the healing potential of cuckold relationships, this is the episode I will forever point them to. So sit back and enjoy as these two bring us all into their world, their struggle and their rebirth.

Episode 121 - Nessa & D, Built For This

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