Out to Adult

By Out to Adult

What's Out to Adult about?

Out to Adult is like HOW to adult. Laugh with us as we share the stories and lessons of how we learned to be adults. These are the things we wish we didn't have to learn by ourselves.

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Out to Adult episodes:

01.14.2021
Should You Move In With Your Partner?
How do you know if it's the right time to move in with your significant other? We share some dos and don'ts to help you decide. Lynne and Kirsten debated it for a while. Katie and Ashley are discussing it real...
01.07.2021
Jose of Hearts - Andrew & Kevin and Beth & Chela - Part 2
Join us for another one of Jose's special relationship sharing sessions. This is part 2 of 2 so be sure to listen to part 1 first! Andrew and Kevin have been together 8 years and married for 4. Beth and Chela have...
12.17.2020
Jose of Hearts - Andrew & Kevin and Beth & Chela - Part 1
Join us for another one of Jose's special relationship sharing sessions. Andrew and Kevin have been together 8 years and married for 4. Beth and Chela have been together 3 and a half and are now engaged!! Both couples have adorable heart warming...
12.14.2020
Bonus Content: Baby Names and Other Fights
In these behind the scenes conversations, you can get a deeper feel for the topics we discuss, the way we joke and laugh, and enjoy the shape of some of our friendships! Follow us for more content: Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
12.10.2020
Lez Review - Happiest Season
Four lesbians review the new holiday movie Happiest Season. Directed by Clea DuVall of "But I'm a Cheerleader" fame, and billed as "a holiday romantic comedy that captures the range of emotions tied to wanting your family's acceptance, being true to...
12.03.2020
Heteronormativity - Is there a Homo-normativity?! - Part 2
Part TWO of our Heteronormativity Episode! We've got a full backyard again for a large group session on heteronormativity and its influence on our lives. Alexandra, Michelle, Tony, Ashley, Rai, Tara, Doug, and Katie! Follow us for more content: Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links:...
11.19.2020
Heteronormativity - Is There a Homo-Normativity?! - Part 1
We've got a full backyard again for a large group session on heteronormativity and its influence on our lives. In the circle, in order of appearance, are Katie, Alexandra, Michelle, Tony, Ashley, Rai, Tara, and Doug! Follow us for more content: Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Facebook:...
11.12.2020
Spotlight! - Girl, You Don't Buy Drinks Here - A Love Story
Listen to one of the sweetest couples you've ever heard share how they met, stories from their years together, how they handled moving to a new state, and the conception and birth of their daughter! Follow us for more content: Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Facebook:...
11.05.2020
Body Image and Masculinity - Part 2
In Part 2 of our Body Image and Masculinity Episode, the men return to offer different perspectives on body image and what it means to be a man. Jose and Katie moderate and we continue the discussion with Jacare, Mark, and...
10.29.2020
Body Image and Masculinity - Part 1
The men are in full force this episode offering 5 different perspectives on body image and what it means to be a man. They answer questions like 'What does self-care look like for you?' 'What societal stigma would you remove...
10.22.2020
Breakups - The Worst
Breakups can be awful or great! Breaking up is part of the natural cycle of dating. Most of us have lived through several so far perhaps with more to go. Lynne and Katie discuss two different types of break ups...
10.15.2020
Queer Nomad Community
We want the van life! Join us as we call out the reasons for choosing a nomadic lifestyle, some of the hurdles to pay attention to as you plan, and open up to possibilities and examples of the awesome freedom...
10.08.2020
So You Want to Start a Lesbian Commune?
These days, not much sounds better than a queer utopia in a nice climate. From the point of view of starting a new business, we discuss ideation, market research, and early steps to compile a business plan. Alexandra has an MBA...
10.01.2020
RIP RBG - A Civics Discussion - Part 2
We've got a full house (socially distanced back deck) for this two part episode. Join us as we mourn Ruth Bader Ginsburg and discuss what her life and death mean to us as individuals, the history of her actions, the...
09.24.2020
RIP RBG - A Civics Discussion - Part 1
We've got a full house (socially distanced back deck) for this two part episode. Join us as we mourn Ruth Bader Ginsburg and discuss what her life and death mean to us as individuals, the history of her actions, the...
09.17.2020
How to Create a Spending Plan
Who among us haven't struggled with creating and sticking to a spending plan?? Let's dive right in with a finance guru to learn some basics we can all apply to our lives and our wallets! Alexandra, that woman has an MBA...
09.14.2020
Bonus Content: Names, Fashion, Dinner, and more
In these behind the scenes conversations, you can get a feel for the topics we discuss, the way we joke and laugh, and enjoy the shape of some of our friendships! Follow us for more content: Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
09.06.2020
How to Build Healthy Relationships - Part 2
Welcome back for Part 2! Jose Napoles moderates this two part conversation featuring a gay couple and a lesbian couple. Learn about 5 different approaches to building a healthy relationship with your partner. Tobias, Brian, Ashley, and Katie delve into their...
08.30.2020
How to Build Healthy Relationships - Part 1
Jose Napoles moderates this two part conversation featuring a gay couple and a lesbian couple. Learn about 5 different approaches to building a healthy relationship with your partner. Tobias, Brian, Ashley, and Katie delve into their choices and philosophies on how...
08.23.2020
First Backpacking Experience
Join Alexandra, Yas, Ellie, and Katie as we learn about a great beginners' backpacking story. Learn their recommendations, trials, decisions, and whether they would go again or not. Follow us for more content: Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
08.16.2020
Secrets to Dating
Four lesbians chatting about their experiences with dating. What's not to love?! Who dated who? What to do when someone ghosts you? How serious is serious? When to delete your apps? What makes it "official"? What's the sitch with bi girls? Follow...
08.09.2020
Find a Hobby - Working With Your Hands
Amy and Katie discuss how and why they got into their current hobbies of being handy and building things out of wood. We tell you some of the benefits we've had as well as the pain points we've felt along...
08.02.2020
Sex Q&A - Part 2
Jose, Ashley, and Katie ask each other questions in order to gain more insight into another gender. On the table again is personal exploration for sexual growth and maturity over time. Part 2 of 2. Some Resources for Safe Lesbian Sex: a) https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/sex-and-love/how-to-have-lesbian-safe-sexb)...
07.26.2020
Sex Q&A - Part 1
Jose, Ashley, and Katie discuss their experiences with sex ed, personal exploration, and sexual growth and maturity over time. Part 1 of 2. Follow us for more content: Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
07.19.2020
Building a Support System
Katie and Lisa discuss the importance of an emotional support system to help get you through hard times and good. Plus, how to support the people you care about. Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
07.12.2020
Miller's Excursion Through Life
Miller discusses their multiple coming out stories over the years. Laughs and true life stories ensue. Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
06.28.2020
Welcome to the Stage, Ms. Doug
Doug, AKA Teal Death, talks about the history of drag and the evolution of the art over the last several decades. Follow Teal Death on Instagram for her weekly Drag Talk Show: Teal Death do Us Part. https://www.instagram.com/teal_death_official/ Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other...
06.21.2020
A Proud Ally
Cherita is back for another episode. Recorded just before the murder of George Floyd - we explore protests in the US, non-violence, and allyship. Cherita's YouYube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/cheerio92133 Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
06.14.2020
Coming Out Story - Amy
Amy tells her coming out story in a sweet and introspective way. This is a great episode for anyone worried about coming out to their friends or family. Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
06.07.2020
Why It's Okay to Not be Okay Right Now (BLM)
Special guest, Cherita Gaskin tells us a bit about why Black people are so fed up right now and discusses some of the current events that brought us to our current round of protests. Check Out her YouTube Channel: Cherita Explains...
06.07.2020
Growing Into Your Authentic Self
Bronwen joins us for her first episode! Over leftover wedding wine we discuss growing out of your shell, some crazy party days, college memories, and give tips on how to push yourself out of your comfort zone. https://linktr.ee/adultout
05.31.2020
How to Cope with Mental Health - Anxiety, Depression, Self Hate, Suicidal Thoughts
Content Warning: Mental health struggles, depression, suicidal idealization, hospitalization In a hard hitting episode, we discuss our struggles with mental health and the people who have helped and hindered us along our journeys. Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
05.24.2020
Friends with your GF and an Ex
Woe is me - In an accidental episode, I did NOT set out to do this to myself, I get tag teamed by my current GF and my ex. Join us for some fun behind the scenes stories on my...
05.17.2020
Coping With Covid
Jose is back to discuss coping strategies to help deal with the virus that has effected everyone's daily life. We've had experience overcoming adversity so we share a few tips and tricks that have helped us in the past and...
05.10.2020
Moving to a New City
Ashley and Katie discuss the reasons we've moved around so much, the steps to take to prepare for your move, as well as tips for your new life in the new place. Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
05.03.2020
Please Fix Me, Here's My List of Ailments
Bronwen and Katie discuss a few random things then get to business with some talk about counselors, life coaches, friendships, and overcoming adversity. It's about to get punny! Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
04.26.2020
Online Dating Like an Adult
Lisa and Katie walk Lynne through creating a dating profile for the first time ever. Lynne has some real life questions, Katie and Lisa have some real world experience and several stories we couldn't make up if we tried! Feel free...
04.12.2020
The Courage to Be Vulnerable
Jose and Katie talk about key moments where vulnerability has led to positive changes. Pushing yourself out of your comfort zone for a few minutes can lead to great gains. Jose is a big fan of Dr. Brene Brown, here's a...
04.05.2020
Gay Until Proven Straight
Lynne, Lisa, and Katie discuss late in life lesbians, resources for coming out, and ways for friends and parents to support the folks in their lives who may be gay. Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
03.29.2020
Journey - Give Yourself Grace
A call in episode during quarantine. Quisha and Megan take us on a journey over the last few years of their life. Where they were, where thought they would be now, where they actually are, learn from their accomplishments, setbacks,...
03.22.2020
Girl, You Don't Buy Drinks Here - A Love Story
Nikie and Jen tell us their family's story. From meeting in a bar in Nashville, to coming out, to engaygment, to artificial insemination, to moving to California. They have been together for 17 years and offer a great perspective on...
03.15.2020
Try Anything Once*
We've all been nervous to try new things, Katie and Lisa talk about the positive outcomes that can come from a few moments of bravery. Change your mindset, what's the worst that can happen? Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
03.08.2020
Red Flags in Relationships
Katie, Tony, and Tasia discuss Red Flags in Relationships and how to take steps to be able to recognize them and walk away. Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
03.01.2020
What are You Thinking Right Now and Other Sex Stories
Tony comes on as our first gay man alongside Tasia to talk about several different things including fetishes, straight people in gay bars, the male orgasm, sounding, and more. Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
02.23.2020
Coming Out Story - Alma
A heartwarming journey of a "bad ass at everything" tomboy's journey into realizing she was a lesbian and coming out to her mom. A story all parents can learn from. Follow us for more content: Facebook: www.facebook.com/AdultOut Instagram: www.instagram.com/adultout/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AdultOut Other Links: https://linktr.ee/adultout
02.16.2020
Growing Up in Alaska
Noelle tells us about growing up in Alaska, some lessons she learned there and since moving to California. Christmas songs, book recommendations, how to scare off a moose, plus much more. Susan Styker - https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/69408.Susan_Stryker Indian Law Resource Center - https://indianlaw.org/issue/ending-violence-against-native-women Administration for Native...
02.09.2020
Staying Present in the Moment
Katie, Lisa, and Amanda discuss being present in the moment, surrounding yourself with people you want to be around, and partaking in situations you want to be in. Plus a bonus mini story from our friends Sonya and Miller. Follow us...
02.02.2020
Making Friends as an Adult
Katie and Lisa discuss how we moved away from our friends and had to start back up from scratch. Learn what avenues we used to meet people we like and how to develop those contacts into friendships. Follow us for more...

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Out to Adult episodes:

Should You Move In With Your Partner?

Jose of Hearts - Andrew & Kevin and Beth & Chela - Part 2

Jose of Hearts - Andrew & Kevin and Beth & Chela - Part 1

Bonus Content: Baby Names and Other Fights

Lez Review - Happiest Season

Heteronormativity - Is there a Homo-normativity?! - Part 2

Heteronormativity - Is There a Homo-Normativity?! - Part 1

Spotlight! - Girl, You Don't Buy Drinks Here - A Love Story

Body Image and Masculinity - Part 2

Body Image and Masculinity - Part 1

Breakups - The Worst

Queer Nomad Community

So You Want to Start a Lesbian Commune?

RIP RBG - A Civics Discussion - Part 2

RIP RBG - A Civics Discussion - Part 1

How to Create a Spending Plan

Bonus Content: Names, Fashion, Dinner, and more

How to Build Healthy Relationships - Part 2

How to Build Healthy Relationships - Part 1

First Backpacking Experience

Secrets to Dating

Find a Hobby - Working With Your Hands

Sex Q&A - Part 2

Sex Q&A - Part 1

Building a Support System

Miller's Excursion Through Life

Welcome to the Stage, Ms. Doug

A Proud Ally

Coming Out Story - Amy

Why It's Okay to Not be Okay Right Now (BLM)

Growing Into Your Authentic Self

How to Cope with Mental Health - Anxiety, Depression, Self Hate, Suicidal Thoughts

Friends with your GF and an Ex

Coping With Covid

Moving to a New City

Please Fix Me, Here's My List of Ailments

Online Dating Like an Adult

The Courage to Be Vulnerable

Gay Until Proven Straight

Journey - Give Yourself Grace

Girl, You Don't Buy Drinks Here - A Love Story

Try Anything Once*

Red Flags in Relationships

What are You Thinking Right Now and Other Sex Stories

Coming Out Story - Alma

Growing Up in Alaska

Staying Present in the Moment

Making Friends as an Adult