Paul Bloom || The Pleasures of Suffering

In this episode, I talk to renowned developmental psychologist Paul Bloom about the pleasures of suffering. We start by discussing the value of suffering in pursuit of meaning and make the distinction between unforeseen tragedy and chosen suffering. Paul also elaborates on BDSM and horror as examples of benign masochism⎯activities that people find comfort and enjoyment in despite the experience of fear. We also touch on the topics of meditation, Buddhism, attachment, parenting, and empathy. Bio

Paul Bloom is professor of psychology at the University of Toronto and the Brooks and Suzanne Ragen professor emeritus of psychology at Yale University. His research explores the psychology of morality, identity, and pleasure. Dr. Bloom is the recipient of multiple awards and honors including most recently the million-dollar Klaus J. Jacobs Research Prize. He has written for scientific journals such as Nature and Science and for the New York Times, The New Yorker, and Atlantic Monthly. He’s the author or editor of eight books including Just Babies, How Pleasure Works, Descartes’ Baby, Against Empathy, and most recently, The Sweet Spot.  Website: paulbloom.net/

Twitter: @paulbloomatyale Topics

00:01:57 The Sweet Spot 00:03:57 Suffering is necessary to pursue purpose 00:05:31 Why we choose to suffer  00:08:43 The post-traumatic growth debate  00:18:48 Using religion to cope with suffering  00:24:05 Heredity, morals, and responsibility in parenting 00:28:51 The multiplicity of human motivation  00:33:26 Benign masochism in BDSM  00:38:49 The calculus of pain and pleasure 00:48:40 Do relationships demand bias?  00:53:18 Is every bias zero sum?  00:57:28 The value of suffering, pain, and horror in imagination See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.