Hey Lifers,
Are you a people pleaser? Do you say yes to far too many 'favours' when you'd like to be able to say no?
Setting boundaries is something that we all know we should do, but when it comes to the people who we love and care about, it can be a lot easier said than done.

Joining the podcast is psychotherapist and relationship empowerment expert Terri Cole. Terri joined the podcast in June of 2022 for an episode on cheating. You can listen to it here! Today Terri shares her insight into everything surrounding boundaries.
We chat about:

Saying yes when you want to say no costs the relationship
Why we don't want to disappoint people but we end up being people pleasers
Having good boundaries will protect you emotionally
Disordered boundaries and co-dependency
The difference between control and having boundaries when trust has been broken
Healthy parent-child relationship boundaries
Why you shouldn't be best friends with your child

You can find more of Terri here!
You can get her new book here.
 
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People Pleasers Anonymous! Better Boundaries with Terri Cole

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If you use tampons, have you heard about the whole ‘8 hour’ time period of which you need to change your tampon or risk getting toxic shock syndrome? Well, that is a load of sh*t. 
If you menstruate, or if you care about anyone who menstruates, you need to hear this conversation!
Lauren Wasser was born into a family of models and started modelling at just 2 months old. She was a fit tom boy and had begun to make a name for herself in the modelling industry. When Lauren was 24 years old she developed Toxic Shock Syndrome (TSS) from her tampon. 
In this chat we speak about Lauren’s personal experience of feeling a ‘bit off’ one day. 24 hours later she was fighting for her life. The syndrome caused a life threatening situation that had Lauren straddling the line between life and death. Lauren ended up needing to have both of her legs amputated in an effort to keep her alive. Now, 6 years since the infection, Lauren is modelling with her golden legs. 
She is now advocating for all of us to learn more about the lack of transparency from feminine hygiene products, and how toxic they can be. Lauren also speaks about growing up with one view of beauty, and how now she is trying to change how we define it. 
In this conversation Lauren mentioned the website Don't Shock Me
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"I Used A Tampon Correctly, and I Ended Up Losing Both of My Legs" - Uncut with Lauren Wasser

Hey Lifers!
Laura is being gaslit by a sleep tracker and she is mad about it! She's also looking for which staff member (*allegedly) took her vibrator. 
Britt has been seeing a particular ex ALL over the place on an unexpected publicity tour.
Do you keep a list of all of the people you've had sex with? Drew Barrymore did and she left it at Danny DeVito’s house! We share our ideas of lists, whether there are a few names that have slipped our memory and the nicknames you all have for the adventures you've been on!
Plus, we talk about the journey of celibacy that Craig David has been on. *There’s been no more ‘making love by Wednesday'.
 
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Sex Lists & Celibacy!

It's our weekly round up! The best of the week from our National radio show THE PICKUP.
Every week we are joined by our radio co-host Mitch Churi at 3pm on the KIIS Network. You can listen live on iHeart radio, or catch up here each week!
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ON THE SHOW

Your best animal impersinations
Britt has a jungle surprise for Laura and Mitch
An important conversation on Domestic Violence
Mitch DIY fail
Toilette etiquete 
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The Best Of The PickUp - Talk seagull to me

Hey Lifers!
Welcome back to our ask uncut where we answer your deep, dark and debaucherous dilemmas. Today includes a doozy!
Vibes for the week:
Britt- Plane Tablet Holder  
Laura- Severance on Apple TV
 Keeshia- SBS Insight -Convenient Relationships
Then we jump into your questions:

SHE CHEATED WITH A SECOND COUSIN
My cousin has come to me absolutely distraught. She confided to me that at a family wedding about 2 months ago she got very very drunk and had sex with our second cousin! Keep in mind she is newly married! She also told me that she is pregnant and not 100% sure who the dad is (her husband or the second cousin) . She has decided just to assume it’s her husband and is not looking into a paternity test. She is so ashamed and I think the only reason she has opened up to me is because of the pregnancy. Is it my place to tell the husband (who I’m close with too), for his sake and the baby’s sake (it could have serious health implications) or do I just pretend I know nothing?



AM I MEANT TO BE WITH MY EX?
I truly believe that my ex from 10 years ago is who I am meant to be with… We were really young and it just wasn’t the right time back then however, over the years there have been multiple times when we have talked about getting back together. There has always been something in the way like work commitments, personal reasons or one has been in a relationship when the other hasn’t. Only a few months ago when I was in a short relationship, I found out he was interested again. I'm not in that relationship anymore but he has just started seeing someone. What should I do? No matter how much I try to convince myself I’m wrong, my gut keeps telling me that it’s him and it will always be him who I am meant to be with. Should I try and talk to him about this (if so what the hell do I say) or just wait and see if time brings us back together again? Is he just the one that got away and it’s time to let that go?




HOW SHOULD COUPLES SPLIT PAYMENTS
I’m planning on moving out with my boyfriend and our two mates in three months into Sydney. For reference we’ve been dating for 6 years and I’ve been friends with his mates the whole time.I’ve been looking at places and am confused about how couples pay rent. Are we expected to split the amount evenly by all 4 of us even though my boyfriend and I are in the same room? Obviously bills are paid per person but I feel like it’s unfair when we are getting half the room. I haven’t moved out before so I'm not sure about roommate etiquette. 


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Ask Uncut - She Cheated With Her Second Cousin

In 2022, coming out of lockdown, Johann went to a party with Hollywood celebrities. He noticed that unlike him and his friends who had all gained weight in lockdown, these people had all somehow lost a lot weight. It wasn't because they had taken up pilates. It was because of a new generation of injectable drugs, designed for diabetics, except that no one was speaking about it.
Immediately he felt conflicted about these drugs. On one hand, it seemed as though they may have the ability to significantly improve the health risks associated with obesity; but there was also a dark side that he felt the need to investigate. 
Johann decided he would interview over 100 of the world's leading experts in science, medicine and the body positivity space to create his latest book "Magic Pill. The extraordinary benefits and disturbing risks of new weight loss drugs.”
In this episode, we speak about:

When Johann first became aware of drugs like Ozempic
Fatphobia, stigma and shame that we have been conditioned to experience in our culture
What these drugs could mean for people who already experience disordered eating
How these drugs work and Johann's personal experiences on them
The potential health benefits that they may have
The risks and unknown outcomes of this class of drugs
How weight is a 'status' symbol in our society
Whether these drugs should solely be available for diabetics
The potential future outcomes of weight loss drugs & what they could mean for our economy

You can find all of Johann's books including Magic Pill here
You can listen to our previous episode with Johann about Stolen Focus & Why We Can't Pay Attention
 
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People Pleasers Anonymous! Better Boundaries with Terri Cole

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