In this episode, we discuss the subtle yet powerful ways shame can permeate and influence the dynamics of a marriage. Drawing from both personal experiences and research, we uncover how shame manifests within the context of marriage, often operating beneath the surface yet profoundly impacting communication, trust, and intimacy. From societal expectations to familial upbringing, we examine the various sources from which shame can stem, shaping our beliefs about ourselves and our worthiness of love.  

Shame: The Silent Killer of Relationships

The world fell in love with the Stills in 2014 as they watched the family courageously beat a stage 4 childhood cancer diagnosis. Devon, a former NFL player, and his wife, Asha have built a strong and loyal community on social media because of their undeniable love, authenticity, and humor.

Today, Devon is a UPENN-trained positive psychology practitioner. He specializes in dyadic relationships, including romantic relationships and parenting. Asha is a certified relationship coach specializing in dating, marriage, and separation issues. Together, they provide evidence-based interventions to boost relationship stability and satisfaction.

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Many of you may know Ray, as he became an internet sensation when a video of him singing to his late wife, Roslyn, went viral. Roslyn was fighting a tough battle against an aggressive form of brain cancer called glioblastoma, and Ray’s love and support through it all was nothing short of inspiring. Their story was both uplifting and heartbreaking—it was uplifting because of the strength of Roslyn throughout her battle and because Ray showed us all what true love and commitment looks like in a marriage. It was heartbreaking because their time together was cut far too short. After losing Roslyn, Ray courageously shared his journey through grief showing his followers the unique challenges that come with being a widow. Finding love again after such a loss is never easy. There are the emotional hurdles, the fear of moving on, and sometimes even guilt about opening your heart to someone new. But Ray found love again with Lexus, who has been an incredible support system and a real beacon of light. Together, their Instagram lives and videos have shown so many people the power of love and faith. In this episode, we get to chat with Ray and Lex about their journey of finding love again after such a devastating loss. They’ll share their experiences, the challenges they faced, and how they overcame them, offering hope and advice to anyone going through something similar. So sit back, relax, and get ready for an inspiring conversation with Ray Singleton and Lexus Wilson.

Finding Love Again | Ray Singleton & Lexus Wilson

In this episode, Devon and Asha tackle a deeply personal listener question. A woman, struggling with the pain of discovering her partner's infidelity while she was pregnant. She wants to save her relationship, but doesn't know if it's possible.  The Stills also take a sentimental journey down their own memory lane. Recently celebrating eight years of marriage, Devon and Asha reflect on the highs and lows they've faced together. They share valuable lessons learned, personal growth experienced, and the love that has sustained them over the years. Join them for an episode filled with empathy, wisdom, and personal anecdotes, offering hope and encouragement to anyone navigating the complexities of love and commitment.

Memory Lane

In this episode, we discuss the delicate journey couples embark on to mend their marriage after the devastation of an affair. Join us as we explore the three crucial phases of healing, from the initial shock and pain to rebuilding trust and intimacy. We offer practical strategies and compassionate guidance for couples navigating this challenging terrain. Whether you're seeking reconciliation or understanding, this episode provides a roadmap for couples to navigate the tumultuous waters of betrayal and emerge stronger together. 

Restoring Your Marriage After an Affair

This episode tackles the often overlooked issue of rivalry within relationships and guides you towards fostering true partnership. Are you inadvertently creating competition with your partner rather than building a unified front? Don't let competition undermine your connection. Subscribe for more episodes loaded with relationship advice aimed at helping you achieve the harmony and love you desire. Follow us on social media for daily tips and visit our website for comprehensive resources from intimacy experts. Let's journey together towards building healthy relationships, one podcast at a time.

Shame: The Silent Killer of Relationships

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