Have you ever gone through something so hard that you didn’t know how you were going to make it out the other side? Often, we use alcohol to numb the pain and make it a little bit more tolerable. If you’re sober though, you don’t have that option anymore. I’m going through something very painful right now and it has given me an appreciation for anyone who’s had intense emotional pain and coped with alcohol.
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E147: Staying Sober Through Intense Emotional Pain

I promise you, you're not a weak-willed loser with no self-control. There are a lot of reasons why we can't control the way we drink- trauma, lack of coping skills, stress, anger, anxiety. Plus, as you'll learn in my podcast, alcohol takes advantage of our vulnerabilities to hook us, then it changes our brains to keep us stuck and reliant on alcohol. It's not about willpower. In the Sober Powered Podcast, I use science, psychology, and compassion to help you understand why you use self-destructive coping skills like alcohol, what happens in the brain to make drinking spiral out of control and prevent us from drinking in moderation, and how to develop the coping skills and emotional sobriety you need to quit drinking and stay sober.
About me: I quit drinking on November 9, 2019. I have a master's in biology and I'm a certified anger management specialist and crisis intervention specialist.
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There are 2 types of alcohol cravings that you may experience as you quit drinking: sudden, in the moment cravings or constant all day cravings. In this episode, you’ll learn about both types and 3 reasons we crave alcohol. I’ve experienced both types of cravings so I will share my experience and help you understand why you keep craving alcohol and where to get started in minimizing your cravings.
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E191: going back and forth makes your cravings stronger
E205: kindling in alcohol withdrawal
E128: why cravings are so powerful (attentional bias)
E216: 4 types of impulsivity
E211: the anticipation of the drink
E206: HALT: hungry, angry, lonely, tired
E203: why you still want alcohol even when you hate it

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Sober Powered Skills (bonus episodes with practical application and coping skills) https://www.soberpowered.com/skills


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E218: In the Moment Craving vs Constant Craving

The weather is getting warmer and we start thinking about how everyone’s going to be on the porch or at restaurants drinking, how nice that looks, and how left out we feel for not participating. It’s normal to see other people drinking and wish you could do it too. In this episode we’ll talk about 3 reasons why we think alcohol is required when the weather is warm. It’s a mix of science, conditioning, awareness and being honest with ourselves. 
What to listen to next:
E179 we have to grieve alcohol (its ok to miss it)
E211 the anticipation

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7 tips for your next 7 days sober https://soberpowered.myflodesk.com/7tips



 
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E217: Warm Weather: 3 Reasons We Think Alcohol is Required

We don’t drink because we’re losers with no self-control. A lot of times we drink because we can’t handle emotions, we get the F its, and we keep convincing ourselves it will be different this time. These are all different types of impulsivity. In this episode, you’ll learn 4 different impulsive traits and how these influence our drinking. I’ll explain which one I am, how this caused big urges to drink in sobriety, and at the end of the episode I’ll give you some criteria to understand which type of impulsivity you are so you have an idea of what to work on moving forward.
What to listen to next:
E55: how to power thru when you want to give up
E202: wtf is the work
E211: the anticipation of the drink
E170: why the first year of sobriety is so hard (reward system healing)

Bonus: The ONE Skill to Start With to Become Less Impulsive
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E216: 4 Types of Impulsivity: Which One Are You?

Do we “get” to be sober or do we have to be sober? What if you don’t want to glamorize sobriety or think about alcohol as a class one carcinogen? Do you have to call yourself an alcoholic to quit drinking for good? In this episode I’m explaining how we think we are different from everyone else and 5 different ways I’ve seen the sober community talk about sobriety. At the end of the episode I’ll share how to know if your thinking is helping you quit drinking or keeping you trapped in the cycle with excuses and unrealistic expectations.
What to listen to next:
E138: 5 ways problem drinkers think differently
E204: can anyone get addicted to alcohol?

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Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership


Anger Management Program https://www.soberpowered.com/anger


Sober Powered Skills (bonus episodes with practical application and coping skills) https://www.soberpowered.com/skills


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E215: 5 Different Ways of Thinking About Sobriety

We drink to cope because it seems to help us manage anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, etc., but self-medicating with alcohol only makes your problems worse. Drinking to cope increases our risk of developing a problem and in this episode I’ll explain why. You’ll learn how much more likely coping drinkers are to develop a problem, how this makes it harder to quit drinking, and how drinking to cope differs for men and women.
What to listen to next:
E111 Drinking alone
E206 HALT
E212 resilience

Bonus Episode: 2 Ways to Reduce Chaos and Overwhelm in Your Life
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Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership


Anger Management Program https://www.soberpowered.com/anger


Sober Powered Skills (bonus episodes with practical application and coping skills) https://www.soberpowered.com/skills


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E147: Staying Sober Through Intense Emotional Pain

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