In this episode, I dive into a storytime about a guy I was taking on dates around New York City. I was putting in an unreasonable amount of effort…and for what? When someone isn’t your boyfriend, you shouldn’t be the only one making concrete plans.

Stop giving SO much to someone you’re not even dating

You’ve made it to Date Yourself Instead, a podcast intended to inspire you to become the best version of yourself. In 2021, social media personality Lyss started a self-love series on TikTok which amassed over 100+ million views on her videos and counting. In this podcast, she gets candid about her relationship experiences, and touches on other topics including business, beauty, wellness, and so much more. Welcome to the #dateyourselfinstead movement. Episodes every Monday.

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I'M BACK IN NYC! IT'S A SELF LOVE SUMMER. In this episode, I cover a variety of questions around dating and relationships. Most of the questions are focused around self-love and learning how to protect your peace and energy while navigating the dating world. As always, if you loved this episode, rate on Apple and Spotify and send me a message @lyss.
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IT'S A SELF LOVE SUMMER (Protect your peace and energy)

In this episode - I cover a WILD Bali dating story time that ultimately made me realize how much healing I have left to do and how I need to take this trip as a true opportunity to focus on myself! I also talk about all the steps I take to help my manifestations come to fruition, and I explain why manifesting your dream life is never too late. Keep in mind l'm 31 years old and I feel like my life is just beginning! So no matter what age you're at - you are capable of creating your dream reality through the power of your mind.
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THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO MANIFEST YOUR DREAM LIFE (Step by step tutorial)

In this episode - I cover a WILD Bali dating story time that ultimately made me realize how much healing I have left to do and how I need to take this trip as a true opportunity to focus on myself! I also talk about all the steps I take to help my manifestations come to fruition, and I explain why manifesting your dream life is never too late. Keep in mind I'm 31 years old and I feel like my life is just beginning! So no matter what age you're at - you are capable of creating your dream reality through the power of your mind. 
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IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO MANIFEST YOUR DREAM LIFE (a step by step tutorial)

Hello from Bali! In this episode, I cover why trusting your intuition and trust in your higher self is always the best way to go when exploring a relationship that keeps you feeling stuck. I also dive into this concept of what true love really means to me and why excepting someone for who they are is the definition of love to me. I also explore the concept of freedom and how freedom ties into true, authentic love. 
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IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE, LET THEM GO (Why love is freedom + The POWER of divine timing) - lessons from Bali

The only episode on detachment you'll ever need to understand HOW and what it really means to let go. In this episode I dive into this concept of truly detaching from any situation in order to heal and evolve into your higher self. 
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Stop giving SO much to someone you’re not even dating

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