This episode features Cindra Banks who is a sex coach and sexological body worker. She identifies as queer and polyamorous, and loves bringing "taboo" topics like sex, pleasure and non-traditional relationships into the light.
Emily and Cindra discuss:

Cindra’s journey with her sexuality
What queer sex is
What Cindra has learnt from her queer sexual experiences
Advice for those wanting to explore queer sex
Is lesbian sex just scissoring?
How to explore intimacy
Shame during sex
How to bring up difficult feelings during sex instead of pushing through them
When being lovey, cuddly and cute in your relationship does not translate to hot steamy sex
Strap ons

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110 Straps ons, scissoring & shame: unpacking queer sex with Cindra Banks

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In this episode, Emily is joined by Nova who is a live streamer, content creator and industry advocate. She owns a studio in Melbourne where she streams from, and also hosts other streamers. In 2023, she was voted Australia’s best porn newcomer. In 2024 she is nominated for a number of awards, including XBIZ Female Streamer of the Year and AAIA Industry Ambassador.
Emily and Nova discuss:

What is a cam girl
Unique requests Nova has had
What is sugaring
Nova's experience falling in love with her sugar daddy
Misconceptions of sugaring
Misconceptions about being a sex worker

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To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
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Nova's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nova_hawthorne/?hl=en
Nova's links: https://www.novahawthorne.com/
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141 Cam girls, sugar daddies and everything in between with Nova Hawthorne

In this episode Emily goes solo and discusses why people may not be getting matches on dating apps and what you can do about it. 
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140 Why you aren't getting matches on dating apps

In this episode, Emily is joined by Bek Antonucci who is a women’s emotional well-being and confidence coach, workshop and retreat facilitator and podcaster.
Emily and Bek discuss:

Bek's experience of being diagnosed with herpes
Should people disclose their herpes status?
When to disclose your herpes status
How to disclose your herpes status
How to deal with rejection
Tips for getting back into dating after a positive HSV diagnosis

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Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com
To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
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Bek's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bekantonucci/
Bek's links (website, podcast, masterclasses and boot camps): https://shor.by/mSuQ
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139 How to tell someone you have herpes with Bek Antonucci

In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a certified sex coach for men with disabilities.
Emily and Oliver discuss:

Oliver’s experience of growing up in Australia and learning about sex with Spastic Quadriplegic Cerebral Palsy 
Oliver’s experience accessing masturbation and partnered sex
Oliver’s experience of dating
Infantilisation
Oliver's tips for accessing sex with a disability 

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To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/
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Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)
 
Oliver’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oliver_me79/
Resources 
TV / Film
* Latecomers, 2022 (SBS)
* Erotic Stories, Ep 3, ‘Bound’ 2023 (SBS)
* Margarita with a Straw, 2014 (Netflix)
* The Intouchables, 2011
* The Sessions, 2012
* Inside I’m Dancing, 2014
 
Influencers / Educators 
* Eva Sweeney (FB: crippingupsex)
* Andrew Gurza (IG: andrewgurza6)
* Hannah Witton (IG: hannahwitton)
* Melinah Viking (IG: melinahviking)
* Shane Burcaw (IG: shaneburcaw)
* Kelly Gordon (IG: mskelgee)
Books
* The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness, C Silverberg etal.
Toys
Bump’n
* https://getbumpn.com/ 
HotOctopuss
* https://www.hotoctopuss.com/articles/sex-for-all/sex-and-disability/sex-and-disability-products/ - 
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137 Navigating sex and dating with a disability with Oliver Morton-Evans Part One

In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a certified sex coach for men with disabilities.
Emily and Oliver discuss:

What is sexual expression
How to create your sexual expression
Advice for support workers in talking about sex with your client

FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic
Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com
To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)
 
Oliver’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oliver_me79/
Resources 
TV / Film
* Latecomers, 2022 (SBS)
* Erotic Stories, Ep 3, ‘Bound’ 2023 (SBS)
* Margarita with a Straw, 2014 (Netflix)
* The Intouchables, 2011
* The Sessions, 2012
* Inside I’m Dancing, 2014
Influencers / Educators 
* Eva Sweeney (FB: crippingupsex)
* Andrew Gurza (IG: andrewgurza6)
* Hannah Witton (IG: hannahwitton)
* Melinah Viking (IG: melinahviking)
* Shane Burcaw (IG: shaneburcaw)
* Kelly Gordon (IG: mskelgee)
Books
* The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness, C Silverberg etal.
Toys
Bump’n
* https://getbumpn.com/ 
HotOctopuss
* https://www.hotoctopuss.com/articles/sex-for-all/sex-and-disability/sex-and-disability-products/ - 
 
  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

110 Straps ons, scissoring & shame: unpacking queer sex with Cindra Banks

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