Suzanne and Dirk are a stag/vixen couple that I’ve been wanting to have on for quite some time. I was finally able to set something up during my last splash event and they were definitely worth the wait. I love talking to husbands who are able to articulate exactly what they were feeling and struggling with during their journey. I know that there are many husbands out there with similar struggles and hearing how someone is able to process his thoughts and feelings is something that can truly help others. Theirs is a story of jumping in pretty blindly and figuring it out as it goes along. This couple really opens up and lets you inside of their particular dynamic.

Episode 134 Suzanne and Dirk - When everything finally clicks

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In concluding my series on exploring Black Love in the lifestyle I was saving the best for last. In part four I have a conversation with the ladies, the wives, the Vixens. I so enjoyed talking to these ladies as they shared their most personal thoughts and feelings as it pertains to being a hotwife. It’s always a pleasure to hear how women evolve and grow as they move through this lifestyle and their stories do not disappoint. If you enjoy hearing from women who have embraced their sexual power, then this episode will certainly make you smile.

Episode 148 - Vee and Kee, Celebrating Black Love in the Lifestyle Pt 4 - The Vixens

For part 3 of my series I talked to the husbands and got their perspective on being Stags in this lifestyle. It was cool talking to Chad and Dee and hearing that while sharing some similarities, they are both different in their approach and perspective. I enjoyed hearing their response when posed with the question “how do you handle your wife having real feelings for another man?” Some really interesting insights there. And please make sure you listen for Dee’s views on setting rules vs. building trust. It is certainly not to be missed and will surely make you think. I thoroughly enjoyed talking to these brothers and I’m sure you will enjoy listening to them.

Episode 147- Chad and Dee - Celebrating Black Love in the Stag/Vixen Lifestyle Pt. 3 feat, The Stags

I’m happy to bring you Pt.2 in my ongoing series where I shine the light on couples of color within the lifestyle. This episode introduces you to Chad and Vee, a couple who have been together since college. I have a great time talking to this couple and they are hilarious. This is an episode that will definitely have you laughing. Chad is a husband who is the true epitome of what it means to experience compersion. If you want to hear from a man who truly wants to see his wife living her best life, then you will certainly enjoy their story.

Episode 146 - Chad and Vee - A Celebration of Black Love in the Lifestyle Pt.2

We all know that black men are very well represented in this lifestyle but I’ve always been struck at how underrepresented women and couples of color are. With this in mind I have been wanting to shine more light on these couples. I recently had the pleasure of meeting 2 couples who were kind enough to join me on the podcast. I decided to present these conversations in four parts:
Pt 1 - D and Kee
Pt 2 - Chad and Vee
Pt 3 - The Stags, Chad and D
Pt 4 - The Wives, Kee and Vee
For this episode I’m happy to introduce you all to D and Kee. Theirs is a story of coming to grips with their feelings, being open with one another and truly embracing all that comes with this wonderful lifestyle. I hope you enjoy hearing their story as much as I did talking to them.

His Twitter - https://twitter.com/dasecretlifeof
Her Twitter - https://twitter.com/herstaghisvixen

Episode 144 - D and Kee - A Celebration of Black Love in the Stag/Vixen Lifestyle

I chose Raw and Exposed as the name of this episode because when you listen to it, that is exactly what R and L are…Raw and Exposed. Their emotions, pain and past traumas are on full display in this riveting conversation. I’ve talked to dozens of couples over the years on my podcast and I don’t think I can recall 2 people who were so willing to bear it all quite the way that these 2 did. Theirs is a journey of acceptance, self discovery, healing and an enduring love for one another. When people talk about the healing potential of cuckold relationships, this is the episode I will forever point them to. So sit back and enjoy as these two bring us all into their world, their struggle and their rebirth.

Episode 134 Suzanne and Dirk - When everything finally clicks

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