The Sideline

S3 E10: What are LOVE LANGUAGES?

On today's episode, Abiola talks about LOVE LANGUAGES: what they are, what they mean, how to figure out yours, and their importance for personal growth and in relationships. You can respond to the questions/statement/thoughts in the episode at our social...

S3 E9: The Isreal-Palestine Conflict

On today's episode, Abiola talks about the current Isreal-Palestine Conflict going on: a brief history on the why, a kaleidoscopic view on the how, and the rational take on the way forward with empathy. It's a somber but short and...

S3 E8: The Subtle Art of Enjoying Small Victories

On today's episode, Abiola talks about something he learnt from watching a child learn to walk, despite numerous failed attempts, yet taking pride in the small victories. It's a "short" episode, keeping it simple and sweet. You can respond to...

S3 E7: To be GHOSTED or be the GHOST

On today's episode, Abiola talks about ghosting: being ghosted, being the ghost, and the possible reasons and feelings involved in either side. He also shares a personal ghosting experience. Don't worry, he won't be left to his devices for long,...

S3 E6: A Casual Discussion about Anal Matters

On today's episode, Abiola talks about things of the posterior: Bidets, Douches and Anal Sex. This is what happens when you leave him to his devices for too long, but it's fairly decent so we let him run with it....

S3 E5: The Scary Truth About Fear

On today's episode, Abiola talks about the nature of fear, how we can categorise it, the kind of fears he keeps in his closet — literally and figuratively, and how we can go about handling it. You can respond to...

S3 E4: The Concise How-To for handling Conflict

On Today's episode, Abiola talks about what conflict is, the different conflict styles he knows, bad approaches to conflict and some healthy solutions, plus a little Jara at the end. You can respond to the questions in the episode at our...

S3 E3: The Annoying Existence of the Payless Customer

On today's episode, Abiola rides solo and talks about the "Payless Customer"; who that is, what it means and how we can make them extinct. Plus some fun Jara at the end as always. You can respond to the questions in...

S3 E2: The "Je ne sais quoi" theory

On today's Episode, Abiola talks about a weird theory he came up with — that already existed since the dawn of time but let him cook. He gives examples to prove his "new" theory and more. You can respond to the...

S3 E1: Sexual Attraction Vs Lust

On today's Episode, Abiola gives a little insight as to why the podcast has been dormant and talks about the subtle not-so-subtle difference between sexual attraction and lust in modern society. We hope you enjoy and remember it's always a...

S2 E9: This Presidential Election Thing

On today's episode (coming out on Election day — talk about clutch), Abiola talks about the three kings running for the Presidential Election in Nigeria. Presenting a fairly biased opinion on each of them: their history, propaganda and nicknames, with...

S2 E8: I struggle with Call Anxiety

On today's TIDBIT, Abiola rides talks about call anxiety; what it is and how to handle it. Don't forget to comment and share. We hope you enjoy and remember it's always a conversation on THE SIDELINE. Reach us at: https://linktr.ee/TheSidelinePodcast...

S2 E7: I SURVIVED BY PROJECT DEFENCE+ jara

On today's episode, Abiola talks about why this week's episode is coming out this late and how he survived his final year project deadline week. Don't forget to comment and share. We hope you enjoy and remember it's always a...

S2 E6: INTROSPECTION

On today's TIDBIT, Abiola rides solo and talks about INTROSPECTION; what it is, if we should do it and how frequent. Don't forget to comment and share. We hope you enjoy and remember it's always a conversation on THE SIDELINE....

S2 E5: (The Madness of) Sexual Abuse in Nigeria Part 3

On today's episode, Abiola continues the conversation with his friends; Kosi, James and Tomiwa, as they discuss more on sexual abuse in Nigeria, giving their thoughts on the stories sent in by you guys. Don't forget to comment and share! We hope...

TIDBIT - My toxic run with Inconsistency

On today's TIDBIT, Abiola rides solo and talks about inconsistency; how it's affected his passions and the podcast over the past year. Don't forget to comment and share. We hope you enjoy and remember it's always a conversation on THE...

S2 E3: (The Madness of) Sexual Abuse in Nigeria Part 2

On today's episode, Abiola is joined by Kosi, James and Tomiwa, his friends, as they continue the discussion on sexual abuse in Nigeria, giving their thoughts on the stories sent in by you guys. Don't forget to comment and share....

The bREAKDOWN of Amber Heard's Hearings

Returning to his podcasting ways, Abiola teams up with the Phenomenal Ore for a dive into the currently trending court hearings for the defamation trial of Johnny Depp against ex-wife, Amber Heard. They go all out with awesome conversations and...

TIDBIT - Viva La Résolution

On today's TIDBIT, Abiola briefly explains the delay then shamelessly changes topic to New Year Resolutions. We wish you a good and fulfilling year in 2022, as you listen to The Sideline, sha. You can reach us https://linktr.ee/TheSidelinePodcast Here's the YouTube video:...

EP 19: Sexual Abuse - Part 1

On today's episode, Abiola is joined by Sideline veterans; Kosi, James and Tomiwa (Co-host of the Hit or Miss Podcast). They had a long conversation which we kindly split into parts, this first part looks at one of the experiences...

TIDBIT - Are you really broke or do you NEED cane?

On today's TIDBIT episode, Abiola delivers his promised treat for our late episode and dives into what it means to be broke; highlighting the kinds of people that need to be flogged for misrepresentation, all jokes, of course. You can reach...

EP. 18: Having Anxiety

On today's episode, Abiola drops a subtle reminder for our lovely listeners to carry their bums and drop their opinions on what sex means to them [lol]. He talks about Anxiety; what it means, when it occurs and two of...

TIDBIT - Do you believe in Therapy?

On today's Tidbit, Abiola asks; would you be open to going for therapy? Would your parents be open? Listen, comment and share, it's always a conversation on THE SIDELINE. You can always reach us at https://linktr.ee/TheSidelinePodcast.

Ep 17: Are You A Creative?

Have you ever wondered what it means to be a CREATIVE? On today's episode, Abiola's got your back. He goes through the wise words from Google and his personal take on being a creative. You can always reach us on...

TIDBIT - Climate Change in Nigeria

Have you noticed that Nigeria's hotter? On today's Tidbit, Abiola talks about what he's noticed over the past 4 years. It's looking like our negligence no fit reach (can't work anymore). Remember to like, share and comment. You can reach...

Ep 16: We Need Love

On today's episode, we begin the new season with LOVEEEEE. Well, Abiola does anyway, hehe. He talks about the five (5) types of love every person must have, should and will experience. He caps it off with an official introduction...

NXT SZN - Mother In-law Issues

In today's not-quite episode, we hear from a fan of the SIDELINE, ÒRÉ, as she shares her thoughts on a relatively widespread cliché experienced by most Nigerian wives. It's a short but sweet one, we hope you enjoy it and remember,...

Ep. 15: RELATIONSHIPS PT. 2

On our final episode of the season, we, the HYPE squad, conclude on last week's juicy topic on "RELATIONSHIPS" with knowing your limits, compromising and the green-ish pasture of the post-relationship phase. It's been a fun and amazing season, stay til...

Ep. 14: RELATIONSHIPS PT. 1

On today's episode, select members of the HYPE squad, come to talk about romantic relationships; their nature and preconceptions, and they crown it off we tips and tales. It's a long one, but one you're guaranteed to enjoy. Listen, share and...

TIDBIT - Updates! Updates!! Updates!!!

Hey guys, on today's episode, Abiola drops some news about the SIDELINE going forward. Nothing too sad or painful, don't worry. Have a listen, share and remember, it's always a conversation on the SIDELINE.

Ep. 13: We Meuve!!!

Hey Guys, sorry this episode came out a little late, but it's gonna' be worth it. With a new guest debut from 'Rayo - her full resumé is in the Intro, hehe. We talk; podcasts, content creating and a bit...

TIDBIT - Political Rants

On today's TIDBIT, an excerpt from the conversations with the squad, that didn't quite make the cut on episode 12. Full and concise rantings on the issues on Nigerian politics, spearheaded by Kosi-chama. Listen, share and remember, it's always a...

Ep. 12: SIDETRACKED!!!

Hi Guys, on today's episode, we finally get some of the squad (side-squad?) to come on the podcast with Abiola. Big thanks to Kosi-chama (making a re-appearance), James and Tom Tom - both making their debuts. A lot was said,...

TIDBITS - Friends with Exes?

Hey guys, on today's tidbit, Abiola gives, a quick shout-out to Eimie's treats for treating him with an awesome meal, a crash course on what TIDBITs are about and we delve into the question of the hour - Why do...

Ep. 11: Why You Dey Lie?

Hi guys, on today's episode, Abiola talks about why people lie, laments the need for it and gives his thoughts on what we should do when compelled to tell a lie. He also apologizes for the "supposed" collaboration that we...

Ep 10: Are You Prepared?

On today's episode, Abiola rides solo and fatigued but talks about being prepared for the next chapters of your life; adulthood, relationships, marriages or kids. The need to prepare for them like an exam and he also throws in a...

Ep 9: REACTIONS: NBA + N.H.I.E.

On today's episode, Abiola talks about the NBA 2021 Finals conclusion, his thoughts on Giannis and his journey to the Finals. With help from our very own Kosi-chama (Sama + Chan), we also take on the second season of the...

Ep 8: Spare the Rod

On today's episode, Abiola, your totally awesome host, talks about his personal experience with discipline in a Nigerian (African) household, how it has shaped his thoughts and what he would do to his kids, in a far away future. Remember...

Ep. 7: Maturity

On today's episode, Abiola, your ever lovable host, talks about what maturity meant to him and what it does now, with an updated view on life. His current addiction for lo-fi shines through in this episode and we encourage you...

Ep. 6: What happened to Twitter in Nigeria?!!

The ban of Twitter in Nigeria hit a lot of people differently but most are unfazed by the development. Today, Abiola talks about the build-up to the ban, its effects (short and long-term) and look-around-sies to it. As always comment...

TIDBITS - Accents

The buzzing sound is the microwave (Don't judge me!). On this episode, I talk a bit on how I feel about the way I sound and the Nigerian accent in general. What are your own thoughts? Is there a genuine...

Ep. 5: Taking on your Questions!!!

Hi guys, thanks for 250 plays, it's been a long and awesome journey. This was to answer the questions you sent me. Do I want a big or small wedding? Am I a feminist? Hehe. Let's do this again at...

TIDBITS - I can COOOOOOOK!!!

Hey guys, it's me again! On another TIDBIT, under 5-minute one-take madness, hehe. This time, I talk about two moments of my culinary genius, my take on 'WOMEN SHOULD DO THE COOKING' and a little question at the end. Enjoy!

TIDBITS - Relationships

TIDBITS is a new segment and format I would like to adopt going forward. Short and sweet is the theme, so I'd talk on issues as before by myself or with a friend(s), under 5 minutes. It's a crazy challenge...

Ep. 4: Milkin' the Quarantine

An objective look at things as they are and what we can do right now, the things in our control. Let's be productive.

Ep. 3: What is Love?

A personal take on how we see, should see, express and should express an emotion as ancient as love.

Ep. 2: Saying "NO" and Hearing "NO"

A subtle vent on the devastating state of modern day courtship amongst young people, especially on part of the Male subject. Let's be gentle and kind towards each other with our approach pleaseeeeeeee!!!!

Ep. 1: Introduction - The Sideline

Get to know who's the fellow on the sideline and if you'd want to come off it with him .. or her .. or they? Hehe. [You can reach out on Instagram and Twitter @__thesideline for comments, thoughts, OPINIONS (if...

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