We have often shared tips of things you can do to enjoy sex more, but today we're going to talk about things not to do. In this episode, we address 6 things not to do during sex. Sponsor Hot, Holy & Humorous Intimacy Cruise  From the Bible   My dove in the clefts of the rock,     in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face,     let me hear your voice;for your voice is sweet,     and your face is lovely. Song of Songs 2:14    Resources   Enough, Already | The Forgiven Wife  4 Ways to Be Present During Sex | The Forgiven Wife   Mindfulness & Meditation During Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous   Q&A; with J: Engaging Your Mind in Lovemaking - Hot, Holy & Humorous   Wives: What Is Your Husband Thinking During Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous (guest post from Gerad Harris)   Does Your Spouse Think about Previous Lovers? - Hot, Holy & Humorous   Two Words Your Higher-Desire Spouse Needs You to Hear - Hot, Holy & Humorous  Episode 118: Sex Is for You Too  This post may contain affiliate links, meaning we receive a commission for purchases made through these links at no additional cost to you.      

Things Not to Do During Sex

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J explains why it's a great idea to have a euphemism for sex.

Euphemisms for Sex (Quickie)

Earlier on in our podcast, we had an episode in which we gave advice to our newlywed selves. Today we want to revisit that topic a bit, but rather than talking to ourselves, we want to share the wisdom we've gained with young wives. Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian marital aid and sex toy store, for sponsoring this episode. From the Bible Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 Resources   Episode 32: Advice for Our Newlywed Selves  Episode 43: Dealing with Sexual Baggage  The Bad Plan of Bartering for Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Embrace a Sexual Growth Mindset - Hot, Holy & Humorous  What I Wish I'd Known Before the Wedding Night - Hot, Holy & Humorous A Letter to My Newlywed Self: Age 25 - Hot, Holy & Humorous Faithful Counseling (online therapy with a fellow believer through Better Help)  Episode 153: Practical Tips for Reaching Orgasm Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns Orgasm Webinar - ONLY $10!  Donate to the ministry HERE. Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Seasoned Wives' Wisdom for Young Wives

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Chris gives you four tips on dealing with a gag reflex during oral sex.

Dealing with Your Gag Reflex (Quickie)

 When we talk about romantic attraction, we think of personal charm, visual appeal, and that spark of chemistry when a certain person is near. But for today's episode, consider this scientific one from Merriam-Webster, defining attraction as "a force acting mutually between particles of matter, tending to draw them together, and resisting their separation."   We're not just particles, but we want to be drawn toward our husband and to resist separation from him (and vice versa). But attraction doesn't stay the same over the whole of our marriage. Today, we talk about how we can keep attraction going or revive it if it's been lost. Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap for sponsoring the episode! Get 25% off the  Transform Your Shower Set for the month of April with our special code FCWTA.  From the Bible My beloved is radiant and ruddy,     distinguished among ten thousand. Song of Songs 5:10 But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen. 2 Peter 3:18 Resources    What If You Don't Find Your Husband Attractive - Hot, Holy & Humorous   How to Boost Romantic Chemistry in Your Marriage - Hot, Holy & Humorous   Why Being a Good Father Turns Your Wife On - Hot, Holy & Humorous  Episode 70: Pursuing & Wooing Your Wife, with Kevin A. Thompson - Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com)  I Wouldn't Sleep with You Either - Kevin A. Thompson (kevinathompson.com)  Donate to the Ministry HERE. Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker 

Fostering Sexual Attraction

This week's quickie sex tip encourages you to learn about your husband's body.

Things Not to Do During Sex

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