Comparison is our natural human behavior. It’s how we make sense of our place in the world and determine if we can safely interact with people. It can become an issue when we chronically use comparison to get external validation. Or, to confirm core beliefs from childhood that we’re not good enough. In this episode, we talk about how to reframe comparisons and how to create a secure base within yourself so comparison isn’t your sole focus.   NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK:

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Episode 64: Why We Compare Ourselves To Other People

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All of us have felt shame or guilt at one point in our lives. We’ve done things we regret and wish we could take back. In this episode, we’ll teach you how to forgive yourself. This is one of our most requested topics so be sure to give it a listen. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK:

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Episode 98: How To Forgive Yourself

We have a nerve that starts at the base of our brain and connects to every major organ. It’s called the vagus nerve. The vagus nerve impacts our level of safety in the world. When we’re safe we feel calm, peaceful, and at ease. In this episode, you’ll learn how to feel safe by creating what is called “glimmers” throughout your day. This is a must listen for anyone with a history of trauma or chronic stress. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK:

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In this episode, we talk about cycles of emotional addiction and how they can create suffering in our lives. You’ll learn how emotional addiction shows up in our lives and how to break free to experience new emotional states like joy, fulfillment, and peace. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK:

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Episode 96: Healing From Emotional Addiction

In this episode, we talk all about relationships. We all want better relationships, but few of us learn how to actually build them. In this conversation, we’ll teach you how. Hint: it begins with yourself. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK:

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Episode 64: Why We Compare Ourselves To Other People

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