Why we need friends who aren't like us

It's a pretty big day around here. After two years, we're giving our most loyal listeners a way to support our work, spend even more time around the table with us, and ensure we're able to keep making the show. We're offering fun bonuses to supporters (think bonus episodes, behind the scenes, swag, and a lipstick consultation with Maggie!). If Around the Table is a Monday staple for you, we hope you'll consider supporting us. Head here to learn more! Now, on to the show: This week, we’re discussing how to cultivate friendships with people who are different than us. Plus, our monthly read watch listen follow segment! What you'll hear: Why it's hard to make friends who look and think differently The immense value in such friendships Practical ways to widen our circles What we've been reading, watching, listening to and following Can I quote you on that? “There’s real value to disagreeing or even offending each other and walking through that, but the fear of offending someone shuts us down before we even get to that stage pretty often.” Jacey “If you’re the type of person who seeks challenge, who seeks refinement, who seeks being influenced by a variety of different voices, then the Internet is a great place to do that.” Maggie “Sometimes it’s the looking for points of connection that connects you.” Maggie “Any belief system needs to be tested and put under pressure; if it can only work in a bubble, then there’s something wrong there.” Jacey “It’s as simple as taking a genuine interest, being willing to expand your horizons, and loving the people that you cross paths with – and maybe widening your path a little.” Jacey “What I read is the vegetables to the donuts of what I watch.” Maggie Links: Today's Dietitian The Economist (and the podcast) Jen Wilkin's blog Women of the Word Watch: Atlanta, The Good Place, The Meddler Will I Know Anyone At This Party? {This American Life} Around the Table Fall Mix Around the Table Christmas Mix Other music mentioned: Penny and Sparrow, Georgica Pond, Michael Bublé's new album Fabletics Stephen helps President Obama polish his resumé Thoughts, questions, comments? Find Around the Table on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, or leave a comment below. Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog Some links are affiliates. Thanks for supporting our show!