"Let me validate you: You deserve to be listened to. You shouldn't even have to think this hard about how to get people to listen to you. However, I also deal in *reality*, and the reality of the fact is you need to work hard to get people to actually listen to you in many instances. 

"When you talk less and you don't lecture, you are better listened to and your relationship improves. Not only do you earn their ear... you maybe even earn their heart a little bit."

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