1.   You’re not stressing over your body.
 2.   You’re not afraid to talk about sex.
 3.   When you’re willing to step out of your comfort zone a bit. 
 4.   You sometimes you schedule it to make it happen.
 5.   You like it.
 6.   You take turns initiating (agreed frequency).
 7.   You feel like it’s a joy and not a chore.
 8.   You’re willing to try new things together.
 9.   You feel good or connected after sex.
 10.  You seek help when you need it (or continuing education).

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