Learn from her story! One of the things that helped me heal from the pain I inflicted on myself by being with my abusive ex, was finding and learning from women who had been through what I went through. I loved feeling like I wasn't the only woman who made 'stupid' decisions for a man. I also was able to learn from those women.

Here is what Stacey J. wrote on her Facebook: 

I became single after a 5 year relationship ended in January 2020. What I once thought would end in married ended in a breakup.

The breakup was needed in order for me to save myself. Not because of physical reasons but to save my mind, protect my peace, confidence and self esteem.

There's nothing like being in a relationship that looks like love to later realize it's narcissistic control. No one thrives in this kind of relationships and it quickly becomes toxic.

The sad part is we are the ones that allow it! Yep girlfriend it's on you. We stay because we feel like things will change, get better,  we pamper them and their feelings sometimes ignoring our own.

But once I was gone I know the universe heard my internal cry and it delivered. That's when operation heal Stacey J began. I had to learn to accept, understand my role in this and rebuild my confidence.

Now I'm happy to say that I am internally happy and my life has exploded like never before!! I have peace,  joy and I've tapped in to my higher self. I am not bitter I'm  better and I welcome love again but when the universe knows I'm ready. I have learned to truly enjoy me.

Stop second guessing yourself girl and know what you want, deserve and willing to give without giving up yourself.

Stacey's IG = @therealstaceyj and @live365.radio

www.live365empowerment.com

I hope in this episode you learn how to stop guessing yourself! 

XO Reka

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