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Nancy and Sarah discuss “Should I Marry a Murderer?,” the grabby new Netflix docuseries about a fiancee turned key witness. Caroline Muirhead is a smart, beautiful doctor in Glasgow swept up in a romance where things gets … dark. Sarah wanted to talk about this show, because it illustrates troubling habits of female accommodation she’s seen in MeToo cases, a tendency to get caught in a trap of people-pleasing. Nancy isn’t sure she agrees with that interpretation — she’s most disturbed by the Olympic record-level of videos this woman filmed of herself — but they have a free-ranging discussion about refusing to let go of the dream, whether the cops failed Muirhead, drama-seeking mixed with substance abuse, the challenge of confronting someone you’re dating, and the grand opera of the show’s climax, which deserves to be turned into a novel (we’re looking at you, Kat Rosenfield.)

Also discussed:

* Nancy bonds with childhood friends from pre-Lena Dunham Brooklyn

* When the Pulitzer happens to a colleague

* “I welcome the insufferability”

* FBI opens investigation against Atlantic journalist?

* White racial grievance at the New York Times

* Anthony Scaramucci = not just good for f-bombs

* “Murder as snack”

* The high-wire conversations demanded by intimacy

* What violence is my partner capable of?

* Fiction writing is “the spooky art”

* Toni Morrison is whoa, channeling from another dimension

* Yes, Nancy is STILL reading Anna Karenina

Plus: The prison documentary that made Sarah want to quilt, Nancy on an NBA great, the ick of “Mind of a Serial Killer: The Experience!” exhibition — and more!

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