November 11, 2025

302. How to Stop Fearing the Future Dementia Decline — Christian Caregivers and Anticipatory Grief

22 minutes

Are you lying awake imagining worst-case scenarios?

In Episode 302, I talk with Linda — a Christian caregiver whose mind is constantly racing with all the “what ifs.” Maybe you know that feeling too.

What do you do when anticipating the decline steals your peace?

This week’s episode tackles that dread head-on. We talk through something called anticipatory grief — the emotional weight caregivers carry before anything “bad” even happens. Linda admitted, “I read too much and now I just expect it to all go badly.” That’s honest. And it’s more common than you think.

But God doesn’t call us to carry imaginary futures. He calls us to steward today.

Here’s what we cover:

The problem with “pre-grieving” — and how it steals your ability to see what’s still good.

Why reading every doom-filled article on dementia won’t make you more prepared — just more panicked.

A new metaphor: What if caregiving is like learning to fly an airplane?

You’ll walk away from this episode with a clearer head and a calmer heart — knowing you’re not failing, you’re just human.

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By Lizette Cloete, Christian Dementia Coach

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