Mom and Mind

443: Behind the Sessions: 2 am Pep Talk, Part 1: The Night Feels Heavy


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We are starting something different today that will carry through the next few Behind the Sessions episodes. I’m tackling those “middle-of-the-night” feelings during pregnancy and the postpartum. Nighttime can bring feelings of dread and loneliness that mothers experience as a heaviness, and all of this can magnify and intensify any perinatal mood and anxiety disorders to make life very challenging for a sleep-deprived parent. You are not alone, and there is a whole community of people experiencing the same things. Think of these subsequent few sessions as your “2 am pep talk.” Join me now!

Show Highlights:

  • The importance of connection

  • Sleep deprivation makes everything darker.

  • You may feel like you’re doing everything wrong.

  • You are doing a LOT while giving love and care to your baby.

  • You aren’t a bad mother if you don’t LOVE middle-of-the-night care.

  • Don’t judge yourself because of how you feel at 2 am.

  • The next few episodes will include coping skills for the middle of the night.

  • Join me for a guided visualization to ease your feelings of isolation.

  • Join me for self-compassion affirmations to try today.

    Resources:

    Call the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-TLC-MAMA or visit cdph.ca.gov

    Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be more supportive in offering services. 

    You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms.

    Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.  

    Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today!

    If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients!


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    Mom and MindBy Katayune Kaeni, Psy.D., PMH-C

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