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WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN
💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen
💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david
❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call
GROUPS
⛓️💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un
❤️🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group
RESOURCES
💪📕 Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop
💪📘 David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-
⛓️💥 Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/
Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal
Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal
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In this episode, David and Eileen talk about the ultimate killer of intimacy post-betrayal: defensiveness. This shows up mostly when the betrayer is trying to do things differently, but their past actions are brought up. When this happens, it can spiral them into shame or defensiveness. The betrayed has every right to bring these wounds up, and navigating these conversations WITHOUT defensiveness is key to healing and intimacy. But how do you do that? David and Eileen give you some tips.
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Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.
If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it really takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours.
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By Eileen & David PosadnyAsk Us a Question!
WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN
💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen
💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david
❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call
GROUPS
⛓️💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un
❤️🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group
RESOURCES
💪📕 Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop
💪📘 David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-
⛓️💥 Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/
Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal
Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal
Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching
Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal
In this episode, David and Eileen talk about the ultimate killer of intimacy post-betrayal: defensiveness. This shows up mostly when the betrayer is trying to do things differently, but their past actions are brought up. When this happens, it can spiral them into shame or defensiveness. The betrayed has every right to bring these wounds up, and navigating these conversations WITHOUT defensiveness is key to healing and intimacy. But how do you do that? David and Eileen give you some tips.
----------------------------------------------------
Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.
If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it really takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours.
Support the show