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In this Episode we explore the concept of "near enemies"—traits and emotional states that masquerade as virtues but subtly sabotage our self-growth, relationships and emotional integrity.
What if the very qualities you pride yourself on—compassion, honesty, equanimity, loving-kindness, are quietly being undermined by their deceptive cousins?
Near enemies are subtle distortions of noble qualities which are unknown to us until we uncover them. They feel familiar, even virtuous, but actually lack the wisdom and authenticity of their true counterparts. Applies to nearly any virtue we hope to cultivate.
While the far enemy is the clear opposite of the virtue, the near enemy appears close to the desired virtue but actually impedes it. Or we may simply confuse them for the 'true' virtue.
On the surface, near enemies may feel helpful or warranted but they can mislead us into thinking we are achieving what we hope to achieve when it is the opposite.
By their nature they are hard to recognize because they're very similar to positive traits and states of mind. Noticing and rejecting them requires self-awareness and vigilance, and it helps if you know what to look for.
In this Episode we:
· Give many examples of the difference between far enemies (obvious opposites) and near enemies (deceptive lookalikes)
Talk you through how to differentiate near enemies from noble virtues
Offer tools on how to change them
Whether you're on a spiritual path, a healing journey, or simply trying to be a better human, this episode will help you uncover the hidden patterns that hold you back—and guide you toward a more honest, connected and wholehearted life.
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Loretta Ferrucci
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Antoinette McInnes
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Disclaimer: What we bring should not be viewed as a stand-alone intervention, it should always be conducted alongside proper medical treatment (orthodox or natural), nutritional assistance, exercise and whatever else is appropriate for your illness. We are pointing out the relationship between hidden and other stress and disease.
Advice provided without warranty. This is NOT medical advice. By listening & applying this advice you agree to take 100% responsibility for your own healing and all consequences.
By Loretta Ferrucci & Antoinette McInnesIn this Episode we explore the concept of "near enemies"—traits and emotional states that masquerade as virtues but subtly sabotage our self-growth, relationships and emotional integrity.
What if the very qualities you pride yourself on—compassion, honesty, equanimity, loving-kindness, are quietly being undermined by their deceptive cousins?
Near enemies are subtle distortions of noble qualities which are unknown to us until we uncover them. They feel familiar, even virtuous, but actually lack the wisdom and authenticity of their true counterparts. Applies to nearly any virtue we hope to cultivate.
While the far enemy is the clear opposite of the virtue, the near enemy appears close to the desired virtue but actually impedes it. Or we may simply confuse them for the 'true' virtue.
On the surface, near enemies may feel helpful or warranted but they can mislead us into thinking we are achieving what we hope to achieve when it is the opposite.
By their nature they are hard to recognize because they're very similar to positive traits and states of mind. Noticing and rejecting them requires self-awareness and vigilance, and it helps if you know what to look for.
In this Episode we:
· Give many examples of the difference between far enemies (obvious opposites) and near enemies (deceptive lookalikes)
Talk you through how to differentiate near enemies from noble virtues
Offer tools on how to change them
Whether you're on a spiritual path, a healing journey, or simply trying to be a better human, this episode will help you uncover the hidden patterns that hold you back—and guide you toward a more honest, connected and wholehearted life.
JOIN OUR PODCAST FACEBOOK GROUP :
https://www.facebook.com/groups/www.lightwithin.co.za
EMAIL US:
OUR OTHER CONTACT DETAILS :
Loretta Ferrucci
Website: www.lorettaferrucci.co.za
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.healerisyou?igsh=NmZzeGNlNjVlOTZo&utm_source=qr
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155810253424
Antoinette McInnes
Website : www.lightwithin.co.za
You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5cVM4He__AWtnfSz-Nuw6w
Lightwithin Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/lightwithinn
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/antoinettemcinnes_lightwithin/
Email Antoinette if you would like to receive an inspirational Thought for the Day
If you found this valuable, please send someone who may benefit the link.
We would love to hear from you. Please write us a review, send us any questions or feedback.
Thank you for listening !
Disclaimer: What we bring should not be viewed as a stand-alone intervention, it should always be conducted alongside proper medical treatment (orthodox or natural), nutritional assistance, exercise and whatever else is appropriate for your illness. We are pointing out the relationship between hidden and other stress and disease.
Advice provided without warranty. This is NOT medical advice. By listening & applying this advice you agree to take 100% responsibility for your own healing and all consequences.