85: Part 12/12, Janelle and Her Lover Talk Awkwardness, Vulnerability & Pleasure: How to Talk about Sex Series

In a detour from their usual dynamic, Andrea interviews Janelle and her lover, John, about their sex and intimacy conversations amidst their soul-led, comet relationship! Yes, you read right. Comet. There's deep honesty, vulnerability and some serious WTF moments as they explain how they took responsibility for their own experience and got oh-so-vulnerable, even amidst an awkward conversation, which led to more pleasure. There's a nod to the RBDSM conversation, ISTA and an explanation of comet relationships.

You'll hear:

--Why a lack of agenda can lead to a lot more ease

--How to recognize and prevent intimacy loss when discomfort sets in

--An example of Janelle voicing of her own boundaries around 10 PM

--How a reflection plus a request enhances communication

--Why processing triggers can turn into a feedback loop

--How deep vulnerability led to more pleasure! Seriously!

--How they navigated a feeling mismatch in their sexual experience

Watch John's film The Village of Lovers Watch The Village of Lovers from Jan. 13 to Feb. 2

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We're Andrea and Janelle--two midlife mavericks sharing openly about our own experiences--messy AF and no regrets----with marriage, divorce, polyamory and pleasure.

You'll hear from relationship experts, meet real life Bravehearts and get intimacy skills.

Truth: When we're brave enough to ask for what we want, honor our boundaries and have the hard conversations--with partners, friends, family and, most importantly, ourselves--magic happens and happiness ensues.

If you're seeking permission to create a new map for relationships and want to feel less alone along the way, we got you.

With glitter and radical acceptance, Janelle & Andrea.

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