A submissive wife should keep her focus solely on her husband. Comparing him to movie stars, coworkers, or your friends’ husbands is not only unwise—it’s deeply disrespectful. These comparisons can make your husband feel inadequate, as though he’ll never measure up. It sends the painful message that you wish he were someone else. But remember: he’s the one who captured your heart. He’s the man you chose. He deserves your admiration, not your criticism. If he feels seen, respected, and loved as himself, he will flourish in his role. Celebrate who he is, not who he isn’t.