#358 – Aella: Sex Work, OnlyFans, Porn, Escorting, Dating, and Human Sexuality

Aella is a sex researcher, writer, and sex worker. Please support this podcast by checking out our sponsors:

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OUTLINE:

Here's the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Introduction

(06:14) - Uncertainty

(13:51) - Sex, power, and death

(26:21) - Free will

(27:46) - Consciousness

(37:41) - Childhood

(50:39) - Dancing

(1:03:56) - Casual sex

(1:06:10) - Camming

(1:21:05) - OnlyFans

(1:31:19) - Dating

(1:47:11) - Escorting

(2:05:12) - Emotion vs reason

(2:13:17) - Love

(2:20:50) - Polyamory

(2:29:44) - Monogamy

(2:36:14) - Sex fetishes

(2:53:42) - Dominance and submissiveness

(3:03:23) - Psychedelics

(3:22:35) - Romance

(3:30:05) - Body count

(3:39:51) - Porn

(3:43:10) - Mortality

(3:45:46) - AI

(3:56:26) - Rationalist discourse

(4:00:18) - Meaning of life