
				
				
				
				
					
				
				
			 
				
				
				
				
					
				
				
				
				
				
				
				
					Kill Your Neediness Before You Kills Your Relationship...
You just met an awesome woman. She actually gives you attention and things seem to be going well.

You like her. But now you're afraid to lose her.

The needy behavior is creeping up, but you hope she doesn't notice. How do you stop being so needy...

How can you figure out if neediness is seeping into your actions, words, or body language. Ask yourself are my actions being a reaction and being triggered as response to an emotion I'm feeling.

If you look at the purpose behind what you are doing or saying, if the underlying purpose is to get her attention and ultimately her validation in some way...

That behavior is being needy. You're being attention seeking or validation seeking. That will come off as being needy.

Desperation isn't a good cologne to wear.
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

 	* What is neediness and a recent example of how it killed a potential relationship
 	* What is a healthy type of needy, and why it can be good in moderate doses
 	* Different techniques to moderate your inner self talk and neediness

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 	* How to Turn Around a Bad Night Meeting Women for You and Your Wingmen (PG Podcast 23)
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