This week on Cheeks Between the Sheets, I’m getting brutally honest about the walls I’ve built around love and intimacy. It’s not that I’ve been afraid men wouldn’t see me as “wife material” because of my sexuality- it’s that I convinced myself I didn’t want them to. So I leaned into detachment, promiscuity, and surface-level passion as my armor.

Inspired by Carrie Bradshaw’s question in Sex and the City- “Can women have sex like men?” I’m unpacking why I’ve chosen physical connection over emotional intimacy, and what it’s cost me.