Bisexuality, Religious Shame & Might-As-Well Relationships

Sexologist Ashely Cobb joins us to talk about her new program Hoe and Tell as well as to answer a ton of sex & relationship questions including:

What is pegging?

What sexual secrets are your friends and neighbours harbouring?

How do I get my shy partner to make noise in bed?

How do I introduce something new?

Does everyone need lube?

Can you get good sex ed on Tik Tok?

How do you let go of sexual shame that is tied to religion?

What are might-as-well relationships and what can we do about them?

How to ditch pressures related to family and cultural expectations.

Should a couple really operate as a unit?

What questions should you ask before you get into a committed relationship?

Is it okay to not like blow jobs?

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Bisexuality, Religious Shame & Might-As-Well Relationships

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You're listening to the sacs with dr jasser podcast sacks and relationship advice you can use tonight Welcome to the sex with dr. Just podcast i'm your co host brand. Where here with my lovely other. Half dr jess hey. How's it going very good. Are you feeling good today. I like the sound of your voice. In my headphones. It's even hotter than just in the general atmosphere. Lots going on today. We're going to be talking with another sexologist. Sex educator sex influence her and new podcast host sex with ashley. And i'm a big fan of tiktok and instagram's gonna want to check those out very excited here. What she has to say about her upcoming podcast. Before we invite ashley to join us. I want to answer a few questions. I know we have so many questions coming in from the podcast. And i'm not good at keeping up with them and i'm working on it but this first one is dear doctor jess please. I need to know if you can give me. Oh this person wants to pay me but you don't have to pay me for this answer. All right. I want to formerly know if all men like to receive fillet xio or is it more of a personal preference and then it says i'll pay for such service and i think the answer not the felicia so i think that it's different for everyone. I think most penises. Enjoy a good suck. I would have to concur or some form of touching generally. But i mean every body is different so i just want you to know that if you don't enjoy it that's perfectly fine and if you've got a penis or a dickel in your life i really liked that word. The best if you have a penis in your life. That doesn't really like being sucked. That's also okay. It doesn't necessarily mean that you're doing it wrong. It doesn't mean that they can't enjoy other types of pleasure. So i want to be really clear that whatever you experience is perfectly valid. Now if you don't If there are certain types of sexual pleasure that you associate with distress that might be something worth exploring but generally speaking everyone's different so we'll we'll leave it at that and you don't have to pay for it all right.