The Save The Marriage Podcast

Chasing Is Killing Your Chances


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Do you find yourself chasing after your spouse?  Do you keep wondering why your spouse is so cool, distant, aloof, and emotionally unavailable?

You may be pursuing your spouse, and in unhealthy ways.  In fact, your spouse may be running away faster and faster, because your spouse is feeling the pursuit.

Why does this happen?  Is it you?  Is it your spouse?

Perhaps it is each of you, and perhaps it is both of you together.

Either way, the outcome is rarely positive.  You may feel abandoned and your spouse may feel suffocated.

If you are just noticing the tendency to chase after your spouse, it is time to change it, before more harm is done.  And if you are working to save your marriage, it is even more important to manage the emotions and the desire to chase.

Learn why this dynamic happens, and what to do to stop it.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:
The Save The Marriage System
The Virtual Coaching Program (email me)

 
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The Save The Marriage PodcastBy Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

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