On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by host of the Too Tired to Be Crazy podcast and @daddyissues_ on Instagram Violet Benson to talk about mindsets, what makes great sex, and so much more.
 
They talk about what it’s like to recognize when you’re feeling depressed and when you’re ACTUALLY depressed, why great, connected sex is all about letting go and not worrying about what you look or sound like, and how to stop self-sabotaging and getting in your own way. 
 
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Connected & Sexy with Violet Benson

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Order her new book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

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Happy 4/20! While direct research is still in development, there's no denying the potential benefits of cannabis for enhancing your sexual experiences. Researchers theorize that the plant can unlock a world of heightened eroticism, tranquil minds, and pain-free sex. On today’s show, I chat about ways cannabis might light up your sex life, my favorite products and delivery methods for the occasion (I’m a huge edible fan!), and how to figure out if cannabis is right for you. 
In this episode you’ll learn: 

 How cannabis can affect sexual performance 

 How to decide if you should bring cannabis into the bedroom

My fave product recommendations for 4/20 fun


Show Notes:

6 Ways to Use Cannabis for Sex: A Guide

The Journal of Cannabis Research Study


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Best Of: Climax with Cannabis

Buckle up: Today’s show is one you’ve all been waiting for…and spoiler alert, it’s all about me! I sat down with my good friend Falguni to flip the script and spill the tea on what sex with Emily is actually like (pun intended)! Tune in to hear me get up close and personal about my sexual journey, why I faked my orgasms until my 30s, and sex trends that I see making a comeback in the near future. 
In this episode you’ll learn: 

 How I stopped having performative sex

 How to push past the pleasure thieves for fulfilling sex

 My go-to positions and products for the best orgasms


Show Notes:

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Sex And Emily Pt. 1

In today’s gut-busting episode I dive deep into the tango between your belly's bacteria and your sexual wellness. And who better to guide us through this intestinal intrigue than Tina Anderson, the gut guru and CEO of Just Thrive, the brand whose mission is to reboot your microbiome. Prepare to have your life changed as Tina spills the beans on how bacteria in your gut really calls the shots, influencing everything from your mood swings to your mojo. 
Buckle up, lovers and health hackers, as we explore the steamy science that'll have you rethinking your next date night dinner. 
In this episode you’ll learn:

What low libido, keeping the spark alive, erectile challenges, and gut issues all have in common

How hormones and the gut biome each affect each other in a bi-directional system

Why the 3 pleasure thieves (stress, trauma, and shame) also impact our general health and wellness


Show Notes:


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Why Gut Health is Sexy w/ Tina Anderson

It’s 2024, and there’s no denying that everybody has sexual needs. However, it can be really difficult to articulate them and share them with your partner. On today’s throwback Ask Emily show, I’m here to help you take that vital next step and get your needs fulfilled. From those who’ve never had an orgasm before to those who just want to communicate with their partners better, I’ve got you! 
Just remember: for every sex problem, there is a path forward. 
In this episode you’ll learn:

How to communicate your sexual needs (even if your partner shuts down sex convos)

Techniques to give your partner a crazy orgasm

What to do if your partner desires things you might not be sure about like swinging


Show Notes:

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Communicate Your Sexual Needs

Today I revisit my conversation with Dolly Josette, the PleasureMuse who turned the world of breathwork into the ultimate erotic adventure! Imagine unlocking a treasure chest of sensations and full-body orgasms you never knew you had with the work of meditation.. Dolly isn't just any guide on this journey; she's the Gandalf of sexual enlightenment, hailed by the high councils of Cosmopolitan and Hustler Magazines as a pioneering Sexological Bodyworker. But what truly sets her apart isn't the accolades; it's her magical ability to awaken the dormant erotic energy within women and couples, guiding them from numbness to dizzying heights of orgasmic bliss. So, if the idea of exploring the vast, uncharted territories of pleasure sounds good to you, Dolly Josette is ready to lead the way!
In this episode you’ll learn: 

How to hack your nervous system for better sex

Why so many vulva owners are trained to numb from the waist down (and how to fix it!)

How to become a great masturbator


Show Notes:

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More Dolly Josette - The Pleasure Muse 



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