Do you find it hard to let go of control? In life? In your relationships? In your work?
You might feel like it has nothing to do with your English but it does. Because we carry this need to be in control when we speak English.
What does that look like?
– Not speaking before knowing exactly what you’re going to say
– Not pronouncing words you’re uncertain of their pronunciation
– Not using words you’re unsure of how to use them
– Not speaking much to people you don’t know
And more…
But in order to feel more freedom when speaking English, you have to give yourself room to grow and experiment and make mistakes. And that means letting go of control.
And unfortunately, many English speakers as a second language don’t allow themselves that.
In this episode, I share my own experience with holding on to and letting go of the need for control, and how it relates to perfectionism. Tune in and you’ll get to hear how I think you can let go a bit more and really be present in your English.
Why Perfectionism Will KILL Your Fluency: https://hadarshemesh.com/podcast/62/

210. Control

The InFluency podcast is your go-to resource for learning, speaking and teaching English.  
Hadar Shemesh is a pronunciation expert and fluency coach with thousands of students around the world, though she herself was an intermediate speaker of English once. 
In this podcast she will share her best strategies for learning English, speaking English with confidence and mastering the American accent. 

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I hit a million followers on YouTube!  Today, I want to share some of the lessons I’ve learned over the past several years, with hundreds of videos later, and how I view this milestone.

397. Lessons learned from 1 million subscribers on YouTube 

I’ve been promising I’d tell you this story for several weeks now…and I won’t hold you in suspense any longer.  Here’s the story of my refrigerator, and a much bigger story about dealing with circumstances completely out of your control.
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396. The refrigerator story | My Relocation Diaries

I got really sick. In this episode I talk about why it was different to be sick in a different country, what was the hardest thing for me, and the funny thing that happened at the pharmacy

395. Sick | My Relocation Diaries

Do you know the 5 most common words in English? Are you actually pronouncing them the RIGHT WAY? You might be surprised! Tune in to this episode to learn about how to actually pronounce the most common words that appear in the English language.
Practice more of these words in phrases and sentences on my website: https://bit.ly/3THEdOw

394. The 5 Most Common Words in English and How to (Actually) Pronounce Them

Relocating can bring up all kinds of emotions – happiness, sadness, loneliness, hopefulness…and sometimes all of the emotions can all happen at once. Today I want to share with you how I’m dealing with different emotions, and some of the ways I’m processing them.
How do you process your emotions?

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