Cultivate Your Erotic Context

Context is perhaps the most important factor in how you experience your sexuality. Context is all of the factors in the external environment AND in your internal landscape that create the story of each moment. Human sexuality is incredibly context dependent – meaning even small changes in the context of an erotic encounter can create huge differences in how that moment is perceived, felt and experienced.

Understanding the impact of context on your erotic experience will help you manage the factors you can control and learn to work with those you can not to cultivate more optimal grounds for the erotic experiences you yearn for. Meanwhile, we can all work towards creating a healthier global context for all bodies to experience more erotic freedom.

Thanks to Emily Nagoski’s teaching about erotic context in her landmark book Come As You Are.

Speaking of Sex Podcast Episodes Mentioned

* Episode #227: Manage Your Turn Ons and Turn Offs* Episode 332: Create Your Bedroom Haven* Episode 338: Sexual Attitude Adjustments

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Transcript for Speaking of Sex Podcast Episode #372

Chris Rose (00:00):Welcome to Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics. I’m Chris.

Charlotte Rose (00:05):I’m Charlotte.

Chris Rose (00:06):We are the Pleasure Mechanics. And on this podcast, we have honest, vulnerable, explicit conversations about love, bodies, relationships, pleasure, all of the facets that combine to create the human experience of sexuality. It’s a good thing we have 370 episodes and counting because this stuff is complicated. Come on over to pleasuremechanics.com where you will find our complete podcast archive, and to get started with us right away, go to pleasuremechanics.com/free where you can enroll in our free online course and check out our other resources we have waiting and ready for you. We have been doing online sex education for 13 years.

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Chris Rose (01:37):When you have questions, you can jump on and ask us. We are there for you in this kind of beautiful way, and it allows us to have over 10,000 students in our school now. It’s a school of 10,000 global pleasure seekers all there to learn how to love and share more pleasure and give the ...