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Defriend Me If You Disagree? Why That’s Not Real Friendship
Conditional friendships may look like loyalty, but they’re control. Learn why walking away is the most Compassionate act of freedom.
Find the original article at: https://www.godjots.com/compassion/why-conditional-friendships-are-not-worth-your-time/
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Show Notes: God Jots – Episode 212: Why Conditional Friendships Will Never Bring You Peace
In this episode of God Jots, Ender dives deep into the tricky subject of conditional friendships—the kind where you’re told, “Defriend me if you disagree with me.” Ender unpacks why these ultimatums aren’t about values or morals but about control, and why genuine friendships should go beyond surface-level agreements.
You’ll hear:
Why disagreements should not be deal breakers in real friendships
How to set compassionate boundaries without letting yourself be disrespected
The freedom that comes from walking away from relationships built on conformity
Why stepping away isn’t cruel—it’s an act of self-compassion
Encouragement to value yourself and seek out friendships built on real love, respect, and connection
Ender also shares personal anecdotes, comedic moments, and invites you to join the growing community of aspiring compassionists to share your own experiences.
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By Ender BowenConditional friendships may look like loyalty, but they’re control. Learn why walking away is the most Compassionate act of freedom.
Find the original article at: https://www.godjots.com/compassion/why-conditional-friendships-are-not-worth-your-time/
SUBSCRIBE: https://GodJots.com/Subscribe
WEBSITE: https://GodJots.com
FACEBOOK: https://Facebook.com/GodJots
TWITTER: https://Twitter.com/EnderBowen
INSTAGRAM: https://Instagram.com/God.Jots
TIKTOK: https://tiktok.com/@enderbowen
STORE: https://godjotsstore.com
Show Notes: God Jots – Episode 212: Why Conditional Friendships Will Never Bring You Peace
In this episode of God Jots, Ender dives deep into the tricky subject of conditional friendships—the kind where you’re told, “Defriend me if you disagree with me.” Ender unpacks why these ultimatums aren’t about values or morals but about control, and why genuine friendships should go beyond surface-level agreements.
You’ll hear:
Why disagreements should not be deal breakers in real friendships
How to set compassionate boundaries without letting yourself be disrespected
The freedom that comes from walking away from relationships built on conformity
Why stepping away isn’t cruel—it’s an act of self-compassion
Encouragement to value yourself and seek out friendships built on real love, respect, and connection
Ender also shares personal anecdotes, comedic moments, and invites you to join the growing community of aspiring compassionists to share your own experiences.