Episode 258: ‘Deliciously Skewered’ (Cassie Brighter)

Have you ever packed an RV with 24 horny naked friends and headed out for a weekend of skiing and sexy shenanigans? With a brand new gender transition and Sex-Positive LA events organizer title under her belt, Trans writer and public speaker Cassie Brighter emulates an episode her favorite 90’s gonzo porn series Shane’s World, and rents a group cabin in the snow. Soon her fellow travelers want to express their appreciation for all her hard work, but Cassie gets shy; Trans girls can be self-conscious of their ‘outies’ and hormones sometimes inhibit their orgasms. The best remedy? Being the focus of a chorus of ‘we love yous’, cheers and compliments. And what’s a ski trip without a snowball? #VectorsAndAngles #OwnYourPronouns   Song: ‘Treat me like a Slut’ (Kim Petras)   About the Storyteller:   Cassie Brighter is a writer & public speaker, sex educator and trans advocate. She's the founder of Our Sensual Selves - a global sex-positive community for women with over 4,000 members worldwide. Her writings on Medium.com have received over a quarter-million views, and she's performed at Flappers in Los Angeles, at Standup Smut and the Mystery Box Show. Cassie recently moved to San Francisco from Portland, and she was wondering where all the queer and kinky people are. This was her first time on the Bawdy Storytelling stage (and she definitely found her people at Bawdy). Cassie’s community, Our Sensual Selves, can be found at https://oursensualselves.com/ Episode links: Like a Kitten:  As the holidays approach, are you looking for a thoughtful gift for your partner or friend that will skyrocket their sex life? Look no further than Like A Kitten; Like A Kitten offers 24 creatively-themed boxes for any occasion that will encourage you to play in ways that you never imagined before. And Right now, Like A Kitten is offering Bawdy Storytelling’s listeners 15% off! Just go to https://likeakitten.com/dixie OR enter code DIXIE at checkout.   Beducated: Beducated is offering folks a whopping 40% off a yearly subscription this month! What is Beducated? It’s the Netflix of Sexual Wellness, and they’re the  #1 online platform for sexual health & happiness. Remember, You can get 40% off Beducated’s yearly pass with my code, DIXIE.  Just go to https://beducate.me/pd2248-dixie and your 40% off will be locked in for life - and they now offer gift cards, too. #ActNow Upcoming Workshops: My new Sex and Storytelling workshop is starting SOON! Have you always wanted to share your own stories of Sex, Kink and Gender, but had no idea how to share them in a fun, engaging way that feels good? Get ready, because it’s here: My new workshop ’How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling’ is a 6 week Sex and Storytelling course that gives you a storytelling system AND helps you find those specific details that bring your story to live. Work with me and a small group of sex-positive students to find, craft and tell your own stories in a fun, open-minded environment. The workshop includes 2 levels to choose from: The ‘Everything But’ Level for the curious but shy, and the ‘All the Way' level, which includes private coaching sessions with me, a final performance and a video of your story to share. Every workshop I taught in 2022 sold out, and this is the first time I’m offering this highly anticipated Sex and Storytelling course.    The workshop starts on January 24th and if you sign up now, I’m throwing in 2 red hot bonuses: My new ‘9 Ways to find your Sexiest Stories’ Guide, and The replay of my new ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want’ workshop   Register now at https://tinyurl.com/HowToBeBawdy   Check out the video for more details #BlooperReel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-YhdAgyVmw   Live Events:   Is it a Roast, or a Toast? On Friday January 27th, join us for the #ReidRoast: A Celebration of Reid Mihalko. Dixie is hosting a Story Toast (roasts are mean, toasts are kind and loving!) birthday celebration to honor our favorite sex edutainer, relationship coach, mentor, slut, and warmhearted human being. This event will be live in San Francisco and live-streamed to wherever you are. Tickets are at https://tinyurl.com/TheReidRoast   As we begin 2023, please consider a donation of any amount to Bawdy Storytelling. 2022 was financially devastating to this show, so your gift can help us keep us going. Our donation links are:   Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: [email protected] CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour Every single dollar helps right now - and THANK YOU!   What’s the Best way to support Bawdy? By Becoming a Patreon member. This  means that you’ll provide ongoing monthly support to your favorite show and podcast. Join Bawdy’s Patreon now and you’ll get exclusive Patreon-only rewards, and my eternal gratitude. As a Bawdy Patreon member, your monthly membership ensures that our podcast, live shows and livestreams can continue. Become a Member now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy    Wanna work one-on-one with Dixie? Want to learn to tell a compelling, relatable story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Whether it’s getting onstage, writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I’ve got experience and can help. Email me at [email protected] and let’s make it happen.   Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You’ll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There’s also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you’ll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! 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