In this episode of the Doorknob Comments podcast, we are excited to sit down with Dr. Edward Shapiro, a distinguished author and psychoanalyst.

During our conversation, we discuss his book "Finding a Place to Stand.” We explore the significance of family dynamics, institutional roles, and citizenship. He highlights the value of self-reflection and the challenges of leadership in a polarized society. Dr. Shapiro also shares a story illustrating the importance of action in confrontational situations. His book serves as a testament to the value of this learning process and is a recommended read for anyone interested in leadership, group relations, and active citizenship.

Key Takeaways

• Engaged citizenship is vital for a cohesive society and involves active listening and open-mindedness.
• Group relations conferences provide insights into organizational dynamics and the role of authority.
• Leadership requires courage to act in challenging situations, as illustrated by a social worker's story.
• Learning from others and self-reflection enhance leadership.
• Asking “How are they right?” rather than “How am I right?” is a paradigm shift for effective listening and collaboration.

In This Episode:

• [04:30] Experiences and journey to Austin Riggs
• [14:30] Therapy and its role in family dynamics
• [19:49] The family as an institution
• [22:39] The book's idea in addressing societal issues
• [24:28] The concept of good citizenship
• [30:10] Group relations conferences and their impact
• [45:19] "Why do I have to do this?"

Notable Quotes

• [12:47] “People resist impatient people who are labeled by others as one of the problems of family dynamics.” - Ed
• [19:49] "The family is an institution and like any institution, it has a mission on behalf of society, and that mission is development - Ed
• [38:32] "I don't know that everybody wants to be a leader. Many people are afraid of leadership because of what's happened in their families around taking up leadership roles. We always bring our family role into our organization.” - Ed

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Dr. Edward Shapiro

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• Finding a Place to Stand

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Dr. Grant Brenner

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• https://www.linkedin.com/in/grant-h-brenner-md-dfapa/