Did I Overstep With My Son and His Future Wife?

Nancy's 32-year-old son is getting married for the first time to a 32-year-old woman who was married before, and their family is worried about the turbulent relationship. When her son and his future wife asked what Nancy would be able to contribute to the wedding, she said she would only help them out if they agreed to go to premarital counseling. Her son is willing, but his fiancee is furious and Nancy is now worried that she might have overstepped her boundaries.