Living with insecurity, a lack of confidence, and a constant need of approval from your partner or others is never a healthy way to build a long-lasting and stable relationship.
On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore why it’s crucial that the only person you rely on for validation, approval, and self-confidence is yourself. They discuss why you shouldn’t rely on others for validation, reasons you might be relying on others in the first place, and why feeling safe with your partner is crucial.

SHOW NOTES:
Validation | Lisa and Tom discuss why you need to find your own self-validation. [0:29]
Reasons | Tom shares theories to why you might seek validation from you partner. [3:17]
Feeling Safe | Tom and Lisa discuss the importance of feeling safe with your partner. [6:09]

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Don't Let Them Determine Your Worth and Self-Esteem | Relationship Theory

WARNING: Subscribing to this podcast will lead to feeling like a badass with total confidence, zero excuses, and living life on your frikin terms! Before becoming the co-founder of the billion-dollar company Quest Nutrition, before writing the best-selling book Radical Confidence, before becoming president of Impact Theory Studios, I had ZERO confidence. I was playing small, trying to be a good Greek housewife, but totally lost myself and her hopes and dreams in the process. And so with this podcast, no matter where you are on your journey, I have gotchu covered, homie! I interview some of the most successful, inspiring, and badass people in the game to bring you the straight-up, no-BS approach to build your confidence and get you from where you are to where you want to go! So get ready for a dose of badassery! Get ready to be motivated. Get ready to be empowered to stop waiting for someone to come and save you and finally become the hero… of your own life!

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It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another AMAAAAAZING episode of Women of Impact to help you stop wasting time with wrong guys (or gals) and break the cycle that has you stuck in the same broken patterns every single time!
In today’s episode I’m joined again by dating & relationship expert (and my long-time homie), Matthew Hussey. 
And today Matt is here to call out the bad relationship tips out there and instead give you a blueprint to ACTUALLY find love in your life and STOP doing the destructive things that are sending the WRONG message and keeping you in unhappy, and even toxic, relationships! 

In this episode, we’re diving into:

- The toxic dating advice out there that’s doing you more harm than good

- How your fear of being alone is keeping you trapped in unhealthy relationships

- Why what attracts a partner doesn’t always attract the RIGHT partner 

- Why you constantly invite bad people into your life & how you can break out of the cycle

- How your mind plays tricks on you when it comes to relationships & safety

- How to distinguish between expectations in a partner that will make you happy & those that just feed your ego


And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode!

So listen closely guys, this conversion with Matt is filled with SOOOOO many dating insights that you can use right away TODAY to make the small changes in your life that will actually make a big difference in your love life and help you find the right partner for you! 

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Dating Advice Every Woman Learns Too Late! | Matthew Hussey PT 1

Introducing Rachel Dratch from Dinner’s on Me with Jesse Tyler Ferguson. Follow the show: Dinner’s on Me with Jesse Tyler Ferguson"SNL” and “Wine Country” star Rachel Dratch joins the show. Over guacamole and tacos, Rachel tells me about her foray into the spiritual world, what happens if you laugh during an SNL sketch, and how a psychic predicted her surprise motherhood at 44. This episode was recorded at Atla in Noho, NYC.
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Hello fears! Whether it’s spiders, open water or public speaking, everyone has something that frightens them, whether it’s rational or not. Keynote speaker Michelle Poler invented the “100 days without fear” challenge because she believes it’s important for everyone to face even their fears that seem trivial or easily avoidable. 
On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Michelle Poler explains why she visited the concentration camps her grandparents endured, why comfort, not failure, is the enemy of success, and why this year you should make a New Year’s resolution to fail. 
[Original air date: 7/8/20].

SHOW NOTES: 
Why is it important to face even “trivial” fears like spiders and roller coasters? [2:05] 
Michelle explains why she believes she really only has seven core fears [4:35] 
Michelle says that her top three fears are pain, loneliness, and lack of control [7:15] 
Michelle explains how her relationship pushed her to become brave and independent [10:58] 
Michelle shares the story of visiting the concentration camps her grandparents endured [14:46] 
Why you should create a New Year’s resolution to fail [16:17] 
The enemy of success is not failure. The enemy is comfort. [19:12] 
Are the relationships in your life based on “me” or fear, or is the basis love? [20:54] 
Why are people so afraid of disappointing others? [23:51] 
Trying to check of society’s boxes leads to comfort, not happiness [27:07] 
Michelle and Lisa talk about why sometimes you really should listen to your fears [28:24] 
Michelle explains why she approaches fears with “x-ray vision” [32:12] 
Michelle started her journey because she wants to impact her future kids [33:55] 
Michelle describes the six stages of facing your fears [34:50] 
Michelle finally felt proud of herself once she finally pursued her own goals[39:00] 
Michelle wrote a letter to herself about gratitude and pride [40:43] 
Success is never guaranteed, so you are better off loving the journey [42:56] 
Michelle describes a surprising superpower [44:17] 

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The Secret to Happiness is Simpler than You Think | Michelle Poler (Replay)

Introducing How to be a Peaceful (Step) Parent from The Parent Coaching Show. Follow the show: The Parent Coaching ShowHow can a step-parent transform challenges into opportunities for deep connection and understanding? In this episode, you'll encounter John, a stepfather whose profound commitment to his stepchildren illuminates the path for all of us. His story is a testament to the power of love, patience, and understanding in the complex dynamics of step-parenting.  Tune in to discover how embracing the role of a step-parent with grace, empathy, and a deep sense of collective responsibility supports the well-being of our children.    --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- About The Jai Institute for Parenting: At The Jai Institute for Parenting, we're deeply committed to reshaping the parenting landscape by educating parents on how to nurture emotionally healthy children, without sacrificing the integrity of limits, boundaries, and values. Our mission is to pave the way for a future where children evolve into emotionally resilient, confident, and empowered adults, fundamentally changing the societal fabric for generations to come. Our Jai Certified Parenting Coaches play a pivotal role in this transformative process, assisting parents in healing generational patterns of authoritarian or permissive parenting. By advocating for methods devoid of punishments, threats, or manipulative tactics, we aim to foster parenting techniques that promote emotional well-being and developmental growth, ensuring a lasting impact not only on individual families but on the broader world.   Connect with us: Website: https://www.jaiinstituteforparenting.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jaiinstituteforparenting/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/jai-institute-for-parenting/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JaiInstitute   Kiva Schuler’s Bio: Kiva Schuler stands at the forefront of revolutionizing parenting strategies as the Founder and CEO of The Jai Institute for Parenting, and the visionary author behind The Peaceful Parenting (R) Evolution: Changing the World by Changing How We Parent. This influential work challenges traditional parenting paradigms by advocating for approaches rooted in emotional intelligence, values-led leadership, and impactful communication. Her journey into the realm of parenting innovation was sparked by her own childhood experiences marked by neglect and trauma. Embarking on a mission to transform the cultural landscape of parenting, Kiva is dedicated to fostering environments where children can thrive, unburdened by trauma, shame, or emotional wounds. As a mother herself, she has not only realized her commitment but has also cultivated a thriving enterprise in The Jai Institute, touching tens of thousands of lives. Through her work, Kiva empowers others who share her vision, aiming to elevate children to their highest potential and nurture a generation that lives life to the fullest.   Sarah R. Moore’s Bio: Sarah R. Moore is not just an acclaimed author known for her transformative book, "Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science & Better Behavior," but also the visionary behind Dandelion Seeds Positive Parenting. Her expertise extends beyond the written word as a certified Master Trainer in conscious parenting and the esteemed Chairperson of the Board for the American Society for the Positive Care of Children. Sarah's multifaceted approach to parenting combines her roles as a public speaker, parent coach, and an enthusiast of brain science, all underpinned by her foundational role as a devoted mother. Her unique blend of professional training in child development, trauma recovery, and interpersonal neurobiology, coupled with her talents in improv comedy and play, enables Sarah to offer a holistic and innovative approach to parenting challenges. To dive into Sarah R. Moore's wealth of knowledge and to join her in the journey of becoming a peaceful (step) parent, follow her across her social media platforms:    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dandelionseedspositiveliving/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DandelionSeedsPositiveParenting/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/DandelionSeedsPositiveParenting/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarah_r_moore  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/dandelionseeds5/  Threads: https://www.threads.net/@dandelionseedspositiveliving DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to team@podroll.fm.

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